Finality

The images of this memorial video came to me in bright flashes one day on the couch while my wife and I were grieving the loss of our daughter, Rachel Hannah

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[JoeyDona]

Bless you and may God be with Rachel. We lost our first baby at 10 weeks gestation on 2/12/07....saw a heartbeat 1/23/07 but at first OBGYN visit, there was no longer a heartbeat. We blessed our son with the name Jonah Dolph Thomas. I believe he and Rachel live in God's Kingdom.

God Bless You!

[jfchanslor]

Thank you for your comment. I think it is important that you recognized and honored your son by naming him. Many do not. Grieve fully. Then live. Thanks, Jason

[beautyisnteverything]

im so sorry i just had a miscarriage so i feel for you. how you are guys doing now? i hope all is well

[jfchanslor]

Thank you for commenting. Since making the video, my wife and I had a son who is just over a year-and-a-half old. He is a joy to us but that doesn't mean we don't think about Rachel often and celebrate her "birthday" each year.

Making this video was part of the mourning process for me and it let me express some of the anguish I felt so strongly just after the miscarraige. My hope for you is that you let yourself mourn fully and deeply now.

My best wishes - Jason

[number7607]

That was very beautiful. I lost two angel babies myself. I will keep you in my prayers. We recently adopted a beautiful little girl. Gods plan isn't always easy but rest assured that he has a plan for you.

[jfchanslor]

Thank you for your thoughts. Since creating Finality, my wife conceived and we have a 15 month old son who is truly a joy to us. I hope to add some video of him in the coming weeks as well. Thanks again for your comments.

[sckooshy1]

Thank you for this video. Sorry for your loss. I had two of these experiences with no heartbeat and then D&C. Although I was not far enough along to know the sex of the babies.

[babylovee928]

i am so sorry

[tammy3467]

very touching video. You did a wonderful job with it. I am very sorry for your loss.

[snakechick77]

fuck you , it`s hard to lose ur own son ur daughter! so leave them the fuck alone , huh

[oscaandchloe]

Im so sorry for your pain... the memorial is very very beautiful. xxx

[KristiR70]

That was an absolutely BEAUTIFUL video!!! Very tastefully, and creatively done!!! I'm so very sorry for your loss..I know first hand how it feels, Amy Kaitlyn was growing healthy in my fallopian tube,she could not be saved, and we lost her April 1992. Bless you both!!

[chicarae2good]

i am so sorry. i don't know you feel, but just can imagine. Jesus has her home and one day you will see her again.

[Carnie66]

your video is beautiful and I am sorry for your loss. My daughter, lily, was stillborn 11 years ago. Subsequently, I have had 3 sons, because of my daughter, I know how precious they are. Love Nicki

[sonyasuestrout]

I had my son at 24.3 weeks gestation on 10/29/07, thakfully his heart is still beating as he fights for his life, I don't understand nor feel what its liek to lose your baby but I know the feeling of being so so scared of that fate. Well I know Go is with my family in this time and I know he is with yours, God bless you!!

[sonia989]

Thank you for making this video. I don't think those who have not been through it can fully understand the grief of a miscarriage. I lost a baby 13 years ago and still burst into tears every time I talk about it. Thank God I now have a healthy 4 month old son from my 3rd IVF. I'm glad your infertility journey story has a happy ending, too. God bless your family.