I need advice

Be as damn critcal as you want just need advice

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[aedn]

I think option b. My motto is "Secure your own oxygen mask before assisting others;" how this applies in your case, the "others" are the children you might raise. Get yourself to a strong place first.

[La33k5]

I also think you should wait until you become an adult to decide what you want to be. With maturity you are going to change. The negative feelings you have today may be positive when you are 30 something. In the mean time you could be honest with people who love you and friends and just be yourself.

[La33k5]

When you get to be an adult you will be responsible for picking up after yourself and getting a job, paying utilities maybe supporting a family of your own. I am a Mom and don't get paid for it but it is the best job. My husband works hard, gets paid cash and pays our utilities. He also picks up his own mess at home. He does not get an allowence. Also if you are just a child you should call 411 to get help from the state. A child should not be responsible for any adult.

[TheGirlToCall]

if u need advice, check me out!

[kamalgilkesk]

you look and sound like a mildly depressed 15 year old boy...no offence. I think you are better off going back to being a woman...

[tayllor2900]

Hate to tell your mother but she cannot legally take your children just because you are trans!!!

[bibisanchez81]

Go for it!!! You only live once and life is soo short. Do it for you. Your mom has lived her life and so has your grandfather its your life and you live it how you want to.

Take care Man Keep you Head up.

[CurriedFavor]

If it were me, I'd go back on T. Because hopefully my family will get over it, but I know they REALLY would be crushed if I hurt myself or worse because of the depression of untreated gender dysphoria and hormone imbalance. Maybe I would regret not being able to have kids later, but at least I'd be around (and healthy) to consider adoption. That's the advice of a strange guy on the internet, hope you can get some wiser opinions too!

[freeride297]

so let me get this straight...you are taking care of your mom, but she has control over a lot of your decisions? Have you thought about getting a job? part time even will help with finances. And about the children...how long have you been planning on having children? That is a huge step and without a job and finances, I would def. put that off. You cant let your mom and grandpa run your life...There ya go, hope that wasn't taken the wrong way. good luck man.

[jsjadednight]

hey aiden i really miss u did you change ur im?