Life Coach and BPD Coach, A.J. Mahari, talks about the reality of life on the other side of someone with Borderline Personality Disorder. A.J., in her role as a Life and BPD Coach helps loved one of those with BPD - non borderlines, bpd family members, to understand not only the difficult challenges they face but how to cope and how to take care of themselves. Mahari is also an expert at guiding loved ones out of the trap of codependence.
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Amen.
The hardest part about having a loved one with BPD is the want to help them, but yet acting on that want actually enables their negative BPD'd behavior...
At the same time, letting go is painful, but in the end, it's not as much. Like Dr. Phil likes to say "Are you doing this for them, or are you doing this for you?"
killerb255 1 year ago