Better than a news years resolution, simple yet more powerful than the standard new years resolutions that are so common and nostalgic like that they hold little more value than just a prolonged verbal celebration to acknowledge that it is a new year. A month later it wears off. That's because we are trying to change symptoms of our problems and not the problems themselves.
My New Years Solution to getting a happier, more fruitful life gets at the foundation of our life's experiences. The good, the bad and the ugly. The root of our happiness and success in life starts with the way that we think.
Therefore being honest and evaluating how we have been thinking to use more of the good thinking and eliminating the harmful, non productive and sometimes downright destructive thought processes that we identify, can greatly increase the level of happiness because we have less stress, better relationships, and more success at achieving our goals.
It's as simple as reflecting back on our past experiences, the good and bad. Then keeping it real with ourselves.
Step 1
Reflect back on the good life experiences. Go ahead and pat ourselves on the back and be sure to re use those thought patterns that help us get their.
Step 2
Reflect back on our bad experiences and zone in on our contributions and decisions help us get there. Then we may need to identify an alternate way we could have behaved to get different results than what we found ourselves dealing with. This way we already have cued our brains to handle the situation differently next time we are faced with similar situations that will require us to respond with better actions for better results.
Step 3
Now to keep these positive thoughts at the top of the brain for easy usage you spend time in a more positive environment whether that is the people your around or having motivational, spiritual, or positive thinking material playing instead of music or tv which plants many non-productive and or negative thought seeds in the mind with out many of us even noticing.
If this Smart Gray Thinking Technique is practiced long enough to become a habit and we restructure our mind and thought process at the root and we start making better decisions because we don't just tackle symptoms for superficial reasons. (which are of course sometimes very good too it just should be the what motivates us to take action)
For instance. things like loosing weight to fit in jeans to look good. Well that's cool and all and of course we all want to look good. However, shouldn't before you even get there, you should be trying loose weight to feel good and be more healthier? Looking good will come with it. See the difference in prioritizing the important things?
We eat better to be healthier which leads to losing weight.
Getting money.
We waste a lot of time (I know I did) trying to get fast money just for the sake of getting money. Fast money has less value. Easy come easy go. We should focus on finding out how we can make money using our skills talents or something we enjoy doing and living withing our means so that money is not what our lives is centered around. We began building healthy relationships and networking with others and the opportunities in life come by themselves. This may include wealth but who cares your new thought process will eventually lead you to discover that money will not make you happy.
People who is centrally focus on money will find themselves making all types of decisions without regard to others and never filling a void in themselves.
Even living a momentary illusion of happiness with all the money they could imagine us haunted by a void that can't be filled. On top of that who can that person truly share his supposedly happy life with if he or she got there by greed and self interest or destroying someone else in the process.
So this person will end up doing things he will come to regret as he attempts fill that void until one day it all comes to a point in which the traveler reaches his destination on the path to destruction.
Still broken, still yearning, still wondering why he is here on earth, looking for answers.
Alone.
LOL, ok, as you can see I have gotten pretty carried away writing...;-0
Give my technique a try, I think you will find it useful.
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How to keep or develop hope regardless of your situation for the New Year forwardby lifeasatrucker417 views
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lpoperson 2 years ago
HAPPY NEW YEAR! Words of wisdom, indeed.. God bless you, and you be safe out there. And keep the Arrow trucker's on your prayer list, most of them lost their job, and are now stuck trying to get back home, after the company cut off their fuel cards. Lord have mercy. Take care...love ya.
GODSPRINZES2 2 years ago
really really nice video, awesome work :)
PcGamer19 2 years ago
love listin to ya.....ya have moved my life to want to try even harder
rebelrecycler 2 years ago