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What's even more frightening to men than "We need to talk?" How about: "I want you to meet my parents."

To complete this How-To you will need:

A shower, a shave, and a haircut
A firm handshake
And a hostess gift

Step 1: Find out about them

Find out as much as you can about her parents. Are they ultra-conservative? Aging hippies? Avid travelers? Obsessed golfers?

Tip: Knowing a bit about them will help you decide how to dress and which way to steer the conversation.

Step 2: Get haircut & clean nails

Get a haircut—even if it's just a trim—and clean your fingernails. This tells her parents that you think enough of their daughter to make an effort.

Step 3: Ask girlfriend what to wear

Ask your girlfriend's advice on what you should wear—and then take it. If you have any doubt, go for pants and a button-down or collared shirt.

Step 4: Bring a gift

Bring a gift. A bouquet of flowers or a bottle of wine are usually appropriate.

Tip: If you bring flowers, include an inexpensive vase so your hosts don't have to scramble around for one.

Step 5: Introduce yourself

When you're introduced, smile, look her parents directly in the eyes, and extend your hand. Nothing says "I can take care of your daughter" better than a firm handshake.

Step 6: Ask lots of questions

Ask lots of questions; people love to talk about themselves.

Tip: Score extra points by asking what your girlfriend was like as a child.

Step 7: Use etiquette

Remember those little etiquette rules your mom used to nag you about? Use them! Hold doors open, pull out the ladies' chairs, and stand up anytime a woman enters or leaves the room.

Step 8: Be prepared

Be prepared to answer lots of probing questions about your background and life goals. Grin and bear it.

Step 9: Say thank you

When you leave, thank her parents for the evening. Single out something to make it sound sincere, such as, "Thanks so much for dinner. That pot roast was really delicious."

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  • i got the firmest handshake ever, i practice a lot in the shower

  • "stand up when a lady enters or leaves the room" if i did that they would think i'm trying too hard.

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  • Seems like a lot of work... and my girlfriends parents seem really wierd but I meant to be meeting them soon, I'm just going to be myself and hope for the best

  • Man bullshit if your girlfriend really loves you then you know that her parents wont especially the dad cause thats his lil baby girl lol

  • @vivamexico67 bullshit!!!

  • this sucks

  • @vivamexico67 you really believe that? you should watch "How not to get fooled by cheap chainmail hoaxes" the Make a Wish foundation wouldn't make such an intraceable and stupid offer, because they are not assholes or idiots, if you want to make a difference: write a supportive mail to them or maybe work as a volunteer at your local anti-abuse center

  • @plantleg yeah, nobody should do that, it's a little sexist... I mean... why not stand up for the men? so unfair

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