The Velvet Rope [BOUNDARIES] (Loft XVA 45)

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[vdjdtx]

Xem... omg I agree with you 200% i was once in that very same situation. I had a gay friend whos man was attracted to me and omg Xem, dude was FINE but I had my best friend at the time and we were like ben and jerry tight. They break up and one day ol boy starts hitting on me and saying that he wanted me the moment he saw me I couldn't do that to my friend Xem.. i just couldn't. Made me feel horrible.. how could anyone do that and call themselves true friends. So I agree with you Xem. Love Ya

[desertflow3r]

I disagree to a degree. if the relationship ends badly, then my friend should have my back and not date this person taking into account my mistreatment. But if we mutually decide that we just aren't right for each other, I wouldn't mind my friend exploring the relationship. he may be wrong for me but right for one of my friends. why let the fact that I had him first stand in the way of someone else I care about finding true happiness? but you may only have him when I'm done.

[mcorey88]

personally i feel like if you are 100% completely over that person u once dated or had feelings for...then your friend dating that person shouldn't even be an issue. but that's just me. i see what your saying xem. it seems like this happened to you a lot in the past, and maybe that's why you take it so seriously. different things hurt different ppl i guess :o

[GingerDemarque]

You are a shrill harpy.

[Sydwazi20]

U are so right, because, in highschool there was or still is that guy from highschool that I still like. But, I had this acquantice of mine who liked the guy that I still had feelings and there it just ended with me and this aquantince somewhat. So I totally agree

[ByMySide77]

@ByMySide77 I'm far from stereotypical dude but I honestly can see where you're coming from. Am I stereotypical, no ! Was my comment sarcastic, yes ! For that I humbly apologize.

[ByMySide77]

@ByMySide77 I'm far from stereotypical dude but I honestly can see where you're coming from. Am I stereotypical, no ! Was my comment sarcastic, yes ! For that I humbly apologies.

[ByMySide77]

I'm actually disgusted with some of the comments made on here.

[ByMySide77]

@HWR924 What makes you any better with the negative remarks. It makes you stereotypical as well dude. If he shouldn't have internet connection ! You shouldn't either. Get a clue.

[spokenwordable]

well i do'nt know about this because my frinends never dating my ex

[jaybee316]

xem you're def a bit territorial and controlling...as a fellow dominant personality i would never tell a friend what to do b/c certain things are unspoken...i take everything as a case by case situation but i see where you're coming from!

[Leadman1989]

@Leadman1989

also those people are their own people not toys for you to play with if a friend develops feeling for an ex then i wish them happiness because im mature enough to know that my ex is moving on and who knows maybe they are soul mates will get married and have a wonderful family who am i to stand in the way

now keeping them separate while your dating that's just common sense but anything after is non of your business because they are their own people