Narcissist Has No Friends

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Narcissists can't empathise or love and, therefore, have no friends. The narcissist is one track minded. He is interested in securing Narcissistic Supply from Narcissistic Supply Sources. He is not interested in people as such. He is incapable of empathising, is a solipsist, and recognises only himself as human. To the narcissist, all others are three dimensional cartoons, tools and instruments in the tedious and Sisyphean task of generating and consuming Narcissistic Supply. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase the print book, or 16 e-books, or 2 DVDs with 12 hours of video lectures on narcissists, psychopaths, and abuse in relationships: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/thebook.html)

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[GuitarKat93]

I don't think Holmes is ENTIRELY narcissistic, because in The Adventure of the Three Garridebs, he becomes very distraught when Watson gets shot. He is capable of loving and having compassion for another person other than himself, therefore he can't be a true narcissist.

[samvaknin]

@GuitarKat93 Narcissists are very sad and worried when they lose their sources of narcissistic supply (their fans and admirers).

[Hawaiiansky11]

@DropDeadCouture They have many friends, but only on a superficial level...they are the kind of people who 'friend' strangers on Facebook, so they can have 1,000 so-called 'friends' they never talk to.

Also, watch carefully. many of them badmouth their friends the MOMENT they are out of earshot. They may have friends, but they are a friend to no one. People are instruments to be used to achieve a narcissists' goals.

[gummynumberone]

@CheddarBob39 ur like me atm.working and gyming.hobbies and such....my social life seems to have quelled massively.but i really dont seem 2 care.lool

[happyorangeanimation]

All this stuff is said about 'narcissists' and yet assisted suicide for the long term mentally ill is not legal... Why would you do this to a person; strip them of what they need (narcissistic supply, by pointing out exactly what's wrong with them), and yet not allow them to die quickly, painlessly and easily?

The narcissists who don't want to live, don't want to go through the struggle of a painful suicide. At least give them the exit they need...

google: 'mentally ill suicide petition'

[warmonkeyism]

I have a Narcissistic co-worker that I have worked with for 8 years. I call her "Candy -coated Evil" Watch out Ladies! Female Ns are SOOO nice to your face, big smile! Pink lipstick- "I like your blouse" etc... they are always comparing themselves to other Women- and will hate you behind your back. This Lady has talked smack about me from the first day! Tells lies to people about me. Back-stabbing snakes- DON'T confide in these.

[warmonkeyism]

I have a Narcissistic co-worker that I have worked with for 8 years. I call her "Candy -coated Evil" Watch out Ladies! Female Ns are SOOO nice to your face, big smile! Pink lipstick- "I like your blouse" etc... they are always comparing themselves to other Women- and will hate you behind your back. This Lady has talked smack about me from the first day! Tells lies to people about me. Back-stabbing snakes- DON'T confide in these.

[warmonkeyism]

@sherribailey75 I think that it possible for the N to be self-deprecating- but he or she wants you to correct them, [and will be bent if you don't], and it would always be the mildest of self criticism. Are you saying that this person is saying,"I am a burden to others?" That would probably not be something a N would admit to - EVER - even if it were glaringly true.

[CheddarBob39]

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[aaaaaFuck]

@CheddarBob39

You don't sound like a narcissist to me.

There's many reasons why someone would not go out of their way to make friends.

Narcissists consider themselves better/more important than others, and see it as a waste of their time making friends unless they can use them to get some benefit from it.

People with aspergers often want to socialise, but don't know how