Help A Sister Out: I Was Raped By My Older Cousin Consistently

Hey Miss Nina,

I'm 16 and I watch your videos all the time. Well I trust that you will give me the right decision to make. It all started back when i was 12 turning 13. I was raped by my older cousin consistently . He told me not to tell anybody. So for over 2 years i didn't tell anybody until it just came out of my mouth to my mom. So at 16 my mom knows that i have lost my virginity to a family member and she wasn't happy about this. I want to tell his mom but i don't know if i should because he might deny it and i don't want to seem as a liar. His sister saw me struggling and she always wondered why i never wanted to be alone with him. I still couldn't tell her. I want to also tell my closes uncle which is his closes uncle. i just don't want that type of drama in my life. I did get pregnant by him but the baby died. I'm scared to death. Especially my grandmother i need to tell her but she will freak out. I just need advice how to tell his side of the family and how to tell my grandmother. please Miss Nina answer back quickly..

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[mzSmileyTS]

Ppl stop being afraid and yell someone!

[denefbla]

Haha rape? Now you know how all that fried chicken felt when you raped it then ate it!!!!

[toda9008]

@romans52345 i was 8 and in my bed asleep when he came in the room one night i woke up and he was on top of me. Is that giving him the opportunity? so it was my fault that he preyed on a child? so the pain i have from that experience is my own doing? is it my fault that at 8 yrs old i didnt understand wat was being done to me & the pain associated with it. im done say wat you want im not goin into this with u this will be my last reply i dont have anything to prove believe wat u lik

[romans52345]

@toda9008 yeah well why did you hang around he/she and give them the oppertunity to do it..it takes two to tango..

[toda9008]

@romans52345 that is not something i would ever make up or lie about. you dont know me or the things that have happened in my life but you are free to assume whatever it is that you want im not going to try to persuade you that i'm telling the truth because i dont have to you are not judge nor jury God knows the truth and that is all that matters so have a blessed day

[romans52345]

@toda9008 your cousin did not do shit to you stop making up shit

[rjcode6]

You loved every minute of it or you wouldn't have gone back for more. I hate bitches that keep "crying wolf".

[MrRdswinford3]

i was raped by two girls two dif times

[budgetqueen79]

@toda9008 (((HUGS))) It will take a long time but it will slowly melt away just talk to a 3rd party

[toda9008]

@budgetqueen79 im 21 & ur post describes me exactly i was 8 whn it happened 2 me and I never said anything now i dont even like being around ppl & i can literally count my friends on 1 hand and i dont even allow any of them to really kno me & i dont want them 2 sometimes it feels as if the weight of the world is bearing down on my chest and i really hope 1 day it just goes away but from ur post i see it probably wont & this sucks in a major way cuz i reall dont want 2 deal wit it