adoption hurts... the continuation

all children deserve to have a loving home. A home where they feel safe, secure and accepted for who they are. Adoption is NOT the answer. With adoption comes the misconception of ownership and with ownership come new owner documents... a bit like a car log book... adoption needs to be replaced with legal gaurdianship and all birth details remain complete and intact.

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[asynkronos]

OMG!! This says it all. It takes a brilliant dark sense of humor to make it through this insanity with your spirit intact, though badly beaten and bruised. My son and I did, no thanks to this sham 'rescue.' His adopters are nothing like him and simply don't get it. Also, I love the Barbies! My sis was a seamstress at a pricey boutique and laughed about all the rich women who ordered look-alike outfits for their adopted girls. Adopting does NOT cure infertility or mental illness.

[much2say1]

Oh asynkronos I love you already!!!! you SO 'get it'!!! Im so glad you and your son can understand and heal together. I found my sense of humour when i realised my mum looked better in a brownie outfit than i did hahah

[sadeyes8nt4ever]

As a mother who's lost her child and fears to tell the "truth" of it all.........*KUDOS*

[much2say1]

Hi sadeyes,I dont know your story but I know about the fear of telling truth. There are a few excellent forums about(and some bad ones!)with people who have been through similar. I avoided forums thought they would be full of nutters I was so wrong.They have kept me sane.dont be alone. tina

[malenzei]

Hmmm. . . I wish so much that my birthmother had kept me. I have nearly told her this so many times. It's funny because "open" adoptions are supposed to make the whole process so much easier for everyone. . . but all it showed ME as I was growing up was that my birthparents were not incapable of raising me, they had simply chosen not too. I can't stand the "you should be grateful" mentality I continually come up against whenever venting even a whisper or resentment or anger!

[ThePhilRobinson]

@atruepie bull shit is about all that is needed to some up your post

[raffynjenny]

@UKDirtySecret Child stealing is going on everywhere it seems mostly English speaking countries where they are taken by the state, then of course there is child trafficking, adoption is big business, monies are generated by the State stealing the children also, we need to end this monster squash it once and for all, they need to Take the money out of it, watch it all die then oh I pray I pray it does too many people hurting so another can benefit ughhhh!

[raffynjenny]

@nomorefunds you got that right, add to that also MOST INFANT adoptions are to fill a personal need to the predator adopter

[raffynjenny]

@Gowalum actually in many cases the mother is coerced and brainwashed told if she really loves her child she will surrender the child for adoption for a better life because she is too young or poor and on and on, and some adopters play on young age and vulnerability of the young mother/poor mother and make her promises of the moon and the stars for both her and her child, it's very sad and sad to see adoption even exits, it still goes on right now, it's never ok to separate mother/baby

[raffynjenny]

@Trumpeter110316 it seems you've been spoon fed and programmed to have that grateful attitude, all adoptions are different, maybe you were adopted along with your adopted siblings from foster care? however Infant adoption is a whole other ball game and families are torn apart needlessly for this monster called ADOPTION being poor is no reason to separate a mother and her baby, foster care adoption is different this is a need for a home , Infant adoption you have predator adopters sadly

[raffynjenny]

@nomorefunds Wow judge much, do you live in a glass house just curious, also if you watched the video you would know this is the Adoptee talking, remember those who live in glass houses should not cast stones

[raffynjenny]

@atruepie actually in many cases the mother is coerced and brainwashed told if she really loves her child she will surrender the child for adoption and a better life because she is too young or poor and on and on, and some adopters play on young age and vulnerability of the young mother/poor mother and make her promises of the moon and the stars for both her and her child, it's very sad and sad to see adoption even exits, it still goes on right now, it's never ok to separate mother/baby

[Gowalum]

@atruepie I'll certainly keep that in mind as I don't want to seem insensitive but want ways for people to know their birthmnothers and often both birthparents, loved them and gave birth. If in that situation I will think how to better phrase the love of the birthparent if its a child. I do greatly admire the birthmothers of these kids who let them live and allow them to be adopted at birth as several of my siblings were. I will keep in mind what you said though.

[atruepie]

@Gowalum Its not okay to tell someone "you could have been aborted". That is rude. You should never say that to any child, period.