This is How You Give Constructive Criticism to People (It's much more accepted)

It's much more accepted when you talk to a person instead of at a person. To my fellow Black Women...... let's try to control our tempers with our men. And Black Men, try to control your tempers with the Black Women.... they will listen

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[Fearless2005]

EVERYTHING YOU READ WAS ACCORDING TO THAT MAN'S EXPERIENCE WITH BLACK FEMALES. WHEN IT COMES TO THE ETHIOPIAN FEMALE.. THE WHOLE VIDEO WAS A RESPONSE VIDEO TO SOMEONE REGARDING INTERRACIAL DATING WITH BLACK FEMALES. THROUGHOUT HER VIDEO, NOT ONCE DID SHE SAY "ALL" BLACK WOMEN. SHE DID SAY MOST (OVER 50%) . MORE BLACK MEN ARE SPEAKING OUT AGAINST THE DEEDS OF BLACK FEMALES BECAUSE OF HOW BLACK FEMALES HAVE ATTACKED & PUT US DOWN OVER THE DECADE. BLACK FEMALES DO SAY "THERE NO GOOD BLACK MEN"

[lovie2000]

@Fearless2005 That would be like me getting on a video, saying the majority of Black men about 50%; ain't worth a damn.... they make babies and leave their women to take care of them..uhmmm over 90% I say.are either locked up gay or don't have a job, or sleeping with 5 - 6 women at one time.. they are not father material.....Now that wouldn't be right would it? There is absolutely no truth in what I just said in this comment... because they are numbers guessed and thrown up by me and my opinion

[mssmia14]

Wow, everything he said was negative. I wonder how he feels about his mother, sisters, cousins, and aunties ? I do believe some black women are that way, but there has to be a rhyme/reason for it. Of course, if another person man/woman cared enough they would want to find out why or ask why. I know one thing, I’m glad God is not like man. Imagine, if God got tired of our daily short comings, walks off and leaves…oh Lord where would be.

[lovie2000]

@mssmia14 Yes it was something else, but according to him, they were actual experiences.... and I do know some women that act the way that he described, so I must say I believe he did experience that and it is true... but like I keep saying people have to be careful how they say things, because the majority of Black women are not like what is being described.... nor do I believe that the majority of Black feel this way about Black women

[twister7boy]

hey girl.

wow sounds like any woman on earth not just one race.

and i dont mean all women if one is loud they are loud just like any man.

you just gotta keep out there until you find one that works for you.

i like a woman that tells it like it is anyway.

wow this guy never met a lot of my girlfriends.

yeah its all about how you say things.

im not the best at it.

nothing anybody says could change my mind about my friends :)

nighty night

[lovie2000]

@twister7boy True, I know women of other races that are loud and angry.... one of my cousins to be exact, she gives my cousin hell

[DoyIeHargraves]

You sure are hung up on people bein' sweet.

[wildslave1]

Do a video on what you think about white that are attractive to Black woman

[rdatlasmbrd]

@Fearless2005 EXACTLY! IF WE ARE MAN ENOUGH TO SAY WE ARE WRONG EVEN THOUGH WE ARE RIGHT THEN HOW CAN WOMEN AND MEN COME TO A COMPROMISE, ONE THOUGHT FOR PROGRESSIVENESS!

[Fearless2005]

@rdatlasmbrd SO TRUE! THAT'S WHY THE BLACK RACE WILL CONTINUE TO SUFFER AS A PEOPLE.

[rdatlasmbrd]

@Fearless2005 can't argue with women.  they believe they are always right.

[Fearless2005]

@lovie2000 YES I LISTENED AND THOUGHT IT WAS A GOOD VIDEO & ADVICE. BUT I ALSO THOUGHT THAT BLACK WOMEN NEED TO TAKE THE SAME ADVICE WHEN THEY SPEAK OF BLACK MEN, AND EVEN THEIR SONS THAT'S DYING IN THE STREETS. SO MANY YOUNG BLACK MALES HAVE TO HEAR FROM THEIR MOTHERS "YOU AIN'T SH*T, JUST LIKE YOUR DAMN DADDY AIN'T SH*T!" CHARITY STARTS AT HOME AND SPREADS ABROAD. BLACK FEMALES LAUNCHED THE WORLD ATTACK ON BLACK MEN A LONG TIME AGO. BLACK MEN ARE NOW FIGHTING BACK AND IT DON'T FEEL GOOD.

[Fearless2005]

@lovie2000 FUNNY YOU SAID THAT, I'VE HEARD THAT FROM THE MAJORITY OF THE BLACK FEMALES I'VE SPOKEN TOO. I EVEN HEARD THE MAJORITY OF BLACK FEMALES SAY THAT "THERE ARE NO GOOD BLACK MEN, ALL BLACK MEN ARE DOGS, BLACK MEN DON'T TAKE CARE OF THEIR CHILDREN, ETC..." JUST WATCH & LISTEN TO ALL THE THE ANTI BLACK WOMEN VIDEOS ON YOUTUBE THAT WERE CREATE BY BLACK MEN, AND A FEW BLACK WOMEN. THEY ALL HAVE THE SAME THOUGHTS, AND SAY THE SAME THING. WHAT THAT FEMALE SAID WASN'T NEW TO YOUR EARS.

[Fearless2005]

@lovie2000 SHE MENTIONED OVER 90% WHEN SHE WAS SPEAKING OF A PARTICULAR THING, LIKE DATING OUTSIDE OF THEIR RACE, OR DATING ASIANS. LISTEN TO HER VIDEO CAREFULLY WITHOUT GETTING HUNG UP ON THE WORDS "BLACK WOMEN." IT'S ALL ABOUT HER CONTENT, AND I DIDN'T SEE WHERE SHE DELIVERED IT WRONG. BESIDES, IF YOU AS AN INDIVIDUAL KNEW SHE WASN'T REFERRING TO OR DESCRIBING YOU.. THERE'S NO NEED TO TAKE OFFENSE. .