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How to get a guy to text you back quicker: Texing and Dating secrets Exposed!!!

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Uploaded by on Nov 7, 2011

1. Play Hard to Get
I know this is difficult, but it works. When he does text you, don't immediately respond. Wait a few hours (you CAN do it!), and then casually write him back.

2. Don't Bombard Him
If your guy has sent you a text, answer it and then play it cool. It is not a good idea to fire off three or four texts to him continuously one after another. The goal is to make him want to talk/text with you.

3. Have Other Interests
When you do talk/text with him, make sure you have things to talk about in your life. You don't want him to think that he is all that you think about and that you don't have a life outside of him. Be interesting!

4. Know What Interests Him
It helps to have a conversation if you understand a little about the things that he is into. Does he like guitar? Try learning a few things about it too so that you can chat with him the next time he brings it up.

5. Don't make false promises
Do NOT promise to do things with him that you do not mean. Although some girls use these types of promises for the 'shock value' it gives totally the wrong impression.

6. Don't send any photos you will regret later
As badly as you want to hear from him, do NOT send him any pictures of you that you wouldn't want shown to multiple people. Trust me, he will not keep them to himself. I promise.

7. Ask for his opinion/advice
Guys love to problem solve. If there is a situation you're struggling with, ask for his help. He will jump at the opportunity to 'fix it'.

8. Don't appear needy
If you haven't heard from him for a while, don't make demands or questions such as "where were you?," "why did you take so long to text back," etc. Remember, you want him to think you have a life outside of him. Guys hate neediness.

9. Make other plans
If you haven't heard back from your guy, don't sit around waiting on him. Get moving and make other plans! That way if he does eventually text you and ask you to hang out, he will see that you aren't going to sit around and wait on him.

10. Realize your worth
You are far too valuable to sit around and wait on a guy if he isn't going to respond with the same care and attention that you give to him. Don't let yourself be stuck at home wishing for him to respond if he isn't ever going to. Move on and find someone who will treat you like the princess you are!

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  • I really think I'm never going to get a man. Too many rules. Too many games. So frustrating! lol

  • Playing hard to get will make a man lose interest in you. #1 rule to get a guy to text back quicker is simply have something interesting to txt about.

    No disrespect to you sister but if a female want to learn something about men, she should learn from a man, same as men cannot learn about women from other men.

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  • good videos :) check mine out please x

  • Great video and had a giggle but my gawd its so true, just went through all that with a guy not long ago...great points said in this video!

  • Play hard to get= FAIL

    No wonder women find it hard to find a dude when they got a back fire plan like that. Go ahead, make that guy wait an hour or two after every time you text him, he'll be on to the next one with the quickness. Every chick that pulled this shit got dropped quick because it either meant she was playing games, clueless or was not interested. Real men don't have time for that highschool bullshit

  • a girl got mad at me when i didnt txt her bak in 5mins.......ಠ___ಠ

  • @datbwoity Agreed!

    Ladies... Would you act like a stuck up bitch to make good, loyal friends? The answer is no... so what makes girls think that acting that way is going to help them find Mr. Right?

    If Hard to get = not spreading your legs right a way, and not sleeping with 30 dudes... than yea go ahead... but if it means ignoring someone... you hurt yourself..

  • mmmmmmmmm when a girl as beautiful as her txt me shoot i drop everything and reply

  • whenever i talk bought video games they never stop texting me lol but somtimes when your bf or guy firend dosnt text u its becuase there buisy doing somthing n girls panic cause they think omg there not replying but somtimes there actually buisy doing reality stuf i dont meet cheating im meaning like work ur other stuf yea xd well my opinion n love yours to

  • mayneee staright talks :0....

  • @datbwoity great advice

  • @Jayd9967 waiting too long is a sure sign to loose him!

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