FitDarcie On Chemistry
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@mooninquirer Although Donald Trump gets a lot of satisfaction, what he does is not QUANTITATIVELY comparable to the harm inflicted upon you, because he has just a reality TV show, and even in real life, a boss has the right to fire employees, especially because they have that understanding from the beginning. This INDIVIDUAL who dumped you had an understanding with you that it WAS a serious, romantic date, and incorporated in that understanding is that he was physically attracted to you.
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@darcievany Pretty sure, eh ? Well, I am ABSOLUTELY sure that the offense he committed was greater than rape, and it is QUALITATIVELY more similar to someone who murders and tortures a child just for the sense of power, and just for the pleasure of watching him die. It is like the power Donald Trump gets from shouting, "You're fired !"
He intended to dump you from day one, and he gets a lot of power and pleasure out of doing so, and is going to do the same thing to other women.
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@mooninquirer Really, if you ever have a child with Down's syndrome, then you SHOULD be allowed to sue him for contributory negligence. He should have told straight up front that he was not attracted to you, and not have mislead you. You could have gone out with other guys, and gotten married in that time. Quite frankly, I think 3 months is too long for a woman of your age to allow a man an engagement period without him marrying you, even if she met him while being a working escort.
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He may have met someone else or you may have run across a red flag he has. For example bad in bed or super religious
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I don't mean to be Captain Obvious here, but the guy is gay! FD, If you're ever in St. Louis, give me a holler. I'll definitely let you buy me a drink. : )
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Three months? No intimacy? Hell no. What took YOU so long to find out what was going on? One marathon date and there should be some intimacy or 3 - 4 regular dates. What man would go out with a pretty woman for three months and not so much as kiss her one the cheek?
Hey may have been a super nice guy and didn't want to dump you in order to avoid hurting your feelings, though.
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Hey Darcie,
To answer your questions:
"How long does it take to feel chemistry or know it exists?" I agree with you. It's like 2 dates tops! If it takes any longer than that, 'he's just not that into you.'
"Do I think it was fair that he strung you along?"
The short answer is no but I have to agree with the guys below: What the heck took YOU so long? If you made yourself very clear and he didn't respond, then 'he's just not that into you.'
I know, we're weird but you're still HOTT!
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@jamesweston0 I jumped on top of him and took my shirt off. I thought I made myself pretty clear.
What he did was totally unacceptable, and it should be a tort for which he should be sued, if not a criminal offense. He committed a crime against you worse than a "child molester," and you certainly suffered far, far more than any victim of rape, because you LOST 3 months --- that is 1 / 75 of your total reproductive life. If more guys did that, you are going to wind up childless ---- a PERMANENT, physical disability, and suffer far greater emotional turmoil than any victim of rape.
mooninquirer 6 months ago
@mooninquirer I'm pretty sure you shouldn't compare this experience with rape.
darcievany 6 months ago
This makes absolutely no sense to me @ all. 3 months of "marathon dates" and no action?!? Good grief! And who the heck are these male friends of yours that say they don't think that's a long time? Maybe they do things differently up there in Canadaland, but that crap wouldn't fly in America. And not just to talk about him, but what about YOU? Why did it take 3 months for YOU to make a move?
JRLeMar1 1 year ago
@JRLeMar1
Yes, I could have made a move sooner, but I thought he was taking it slow because he liked me and didn't want to screw up. The idea that he didn't like me didn't even occur to me.
darcievany 1 year ago