Choosing to be Gay?

Some say it's a choice to be gay ... here's something to think about if that's so...sorry about that stuff at the end, it really is just about the first real vlog I've made...

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[Phil49er]

As I expected no one has an answer to my question, which is not "why would one choose to be gay" but "HOW would one execute such a choice?" It is a ridiculous idea. But for gay to be a 'choice' that is exactly what has to happen.

[myp410up]

Great video and you make a strong argument. You can't choose your sex nor your sexuality.

[cryingsoftly]

I have maintained my orientation since childhood. I have not known a single person who has changed their orientation.

[uraine7626]

Being Gay, straight, bisexual is more than just about have sex. Someone desire for the loneliness of someone of the same or opposite gender. They are more comfortable with the person of the opposite or same gender. The feel the need to comfort or love the person of the same or opposite gender. People base sexuality all about sex, and it is more than about sex, such as the attraction, caring, and the love u feel for the person of that gender.

[uraine7626]

He bisexual, you can't say it a choice base on his sexuality, if he was gay he would be only with gays, and he was straight he would only be with straight

[uraine7626]

Wrong?

[uraine7626]

First of all, immorality is an opinion of society, where it a sin or not depends on your beliefs and religion. The question would be is sexuality a choice? Genetics, Hormones, and etc all have it's flaws? Not saying anything wrong with genetics and hormones but don't everything fall the way you would think it should fall.

[shmeric2007]

I don't believe that homophobes are saying that gay people have directly chosen to be gay. They are saying that gay people have made so many immoral/distorted/perverted choices in their life...and that has warped their perspective so much that loving someone of the same sex seems natural. They think that gay people should repent their immoral/distorted/perverted choices that lead to being gay in an effort to cure themselves.

Note: I think this argument is absurd, but useful to understand

[garysdeskcom]

Excellent point. I don't think any woman would want a gay man trying really hard to have sex with them. I don't think any family member would want to see female family member forced to endure a marriage where the husband had to force himself to do something unpleasant - have sex.

[carl6855]

I think the only "choice" available here is choosing to "act" straight -to appear to be someone you are not- to fit in or make your interactions with family easier.

I hear str8 people say a person becomes gay because of some influence (or lack of) when they were young. But ask them if they would be gay if raised in the same environment and they cannot imagine it.