Marriage and sex: How to cope with a lack of sex in marriage

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Marriage and sex: How to cope with a lack of sex in marriage

Most couples experience ups and downs in their sexual appetites, but when is it a sign of a problem? Licensed clinical therapist Rachel Sussman explains whats normal and what might be cause for some concern.

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[RofIStomper]

@Flouraflora I highly recommend going to counseling. There may be specific issues which is causing him to not want to be intimate. My wife and I have been going for 2 months now on a weekly basis, every Saturday. It turns out my wife was in an unhealthy relationship a long time ago where sex was forced on her. Her ex-boyfriend wouldn't let her go to sleep if she didn't put out. I just recently found out about this at our counselings. I am being patient and understanding for the time being.

[hymenaeuseeks]

Sex is for evolution. You're 100% correct that sensuality is the barometer of the relationship. Scientific evidence from many disciplines show that monogamy is not compatible with our innate biology. While there is some diversity among us, women evolved to seek a new shiny man for each of her children and the popular men, like all men, were wired to want something new.

[chloeabibas]

From a woman's stand point, there can be tons of reason why your wife refuses to have sex with you. Maybe they feel like it is becoming a chore,Lack of romance/intimacy/foreplay, too tired ( especially if you guys have kids) or just plain not interested. Why dont you men spice things up???

[myjanuary151987]

Two old unfuckable hairy pussies discuss a problem of sex. LMAO!

[sega31098]

@hymenaeuseeks

I'm not so sure about that. When people sleep around, I always hear of people feeling guilty and stuff.

[mba2ceo]

Women use sex to trap men !!! sad but true !!! I would say 80% of women marry men THEY HAVE NO SEXUAL ATTRACTION TO.

[drastaify]

@RofIStomper do you actually really like your wife? what if you knew now that you would never have sex again with her. would you divorce her?

[drastaify]

okay if i really like someone a lot and i really really like them then sex wont even matter. i could be with her for my whole life and not have sex once and be really happy because thats not why i love her. i love her just because i just really really like her a lot

[limbo194]

seems like everyone is talking about the women being the ones who dont want to have sex....i'm a woman and i want to have sex, but my partner is just not interested!!!!! ironic isnt it??? so its not always the women to blame...................

[QuirkyGengar]

How to solve sexless marriages and make it work? Wives just shut up and fuck him, unless you are physically unable or are about to die. Nothing else gives you an inch of an excuse. Why do women not care if their husband wants to have sex with them, but care if he wants to have sex with other women? The problem is not in the man, because he went against his biological code to be loyal with one woman, these type of women have pre-evolved and need to be getten rid of immediately.

[CHASEDONKEYFISH]

My wife will only have sex with me 3-4 times a month. I have to beg for it every day just to get it that often. And when it happens, its like business. She has been taking anti-depressants for the last ten years which is scientifically proven to lower womens libido. But... I have a need that only she can fulfill, and she doesn't understand that. There are a few nice looking girls I work with that like me, I'm thinking about having sex with one of them. If things don't change soon, it'll be over.

[SuperTruth77]

I love my dear wife so much, but I fear our relationship is being jeapordised by my past career in Adult films. I left that life behind several years ago & have no wish to return.

I thought she knew my feelings, but recently has suggested acting out scenes I did back then to ‘jazz up’ our sex life. She’s started buying horrible slutty clothes that don’t even suit her & acting whoreish in the bedroom-giving me traumatic flashbacks every time. Now she plays my old DVDs every night, it’s awful!