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  • man, these videos.... are truly SELFISH! lol keep them coming.

    - a fan

  • @Atreyul Selfish is the path to enlightenment.

  • This is a good video but i've been having a problem with the opposite I think. I've been trying to practice letting go of my disires, but isnt it our desires that help us to grow and change into a more mature or wiser person? So how much should we embrace our desires??

  • @bat5jamma The source of desire is important. Desires of spirit, being, creativity, love which don't cause suffering if not met are healthy. However, most desires are based in ego, void filling, and excess.

  • This has been helping me a lot the past couple days. I always worry that I'm unproductive and I'm always complaining to myself about what I Should to and what I Shouldn't. Thank you good sir, It's a relief not worrying so much. I find if I concentrate about this too much I start losing the relief. I have to just tell myself to relax and then I take some deep breaths.

    thankee

  • Thank you for sharing. It also helps to remember in the grand scheme of things our lives aren't that important. We are conditioned from a very young age to do, work, succeed, and produce instead of just be. Find your identity in your being instead of your doing and peace will overflow.

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  • You sorta look like Keifer Sutherland. : )

  • @vagabondsteve love is the path to enlightenment, not selfishness

  • Thank you so much steve, your videos are so inspirational

  • I find these videos interesting to the extent that there are a few interesting nuggets of thought lying within a diffuse field of pop New Age psycho-babble. Internal struggles can have importance, and it seems overly facile and indolent to simply sugar-coat them, sweep them under a rug of unconditional self-acceptance, or simply dismiss them as delusions.

  • Life sucks and happiness eludes us, and what few moments of pleasure we get only show us how empty and meaningless the rest of our existance truly is.

  • Internal conflict is there for a reason. ignoring it doesn't solve anything. I think it's healthier for people to take happiness from accomplishing things and overcoming some of these flaws. should a murderer, rapist or child molester not fight their illness? Or should they just accept that is who they are and be themselves? Don't say shoulda, coulda, woulda.. get off your ass and do it.. you'll revel in your accomplishment when you succeed... down 26lbs, 26 more to go and happy getting there...

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