Master Hook on Safety in BDSM - part #2

Safety is something that I feel is overlooked a lot when people get ready to play. I am doing 3 videos about safety. The First will be to the Dominants for the most part, the submissives should also know this stuff as well. The 2ed is for the submissives but I also have a strong word for all the Dominants as well.

In this video I will go over something that is really needed any time I play, it's something simple and keeps the girl I am playing with and me safe. SAFE WORDS!!! Some Doms don't like safe words. Well in this I will go over how I feel about it and what I think all subs should do with a Dom who does not want to use them. also there is a really bad BDSM joke at the very end.

A place to start to get a pair safety scissors, they are all over the web and you can also get them at most drug stores.

http://www.allheart.com/bandage-scissors.html

This is good to read about safety

http://www.xeromag.com/fvbdsafety.html

http://www.love-shop.biz/bdsm-safety.html

Subspace

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Subspace_%28BDSM%29

SAMs

http://lauragoodwin.org/sam.htm

Safe, sane and consensual

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Safe%2C_Sane_and_Consensual


other good stuff to read.

Scene (BDSM)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scene_%28BDSM%29

Negotiation (BDSM)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Negotiation_%28BDSM%29

Limits (BDSM)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Limits_%28BDSM%29

Safeword

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Safeword

be well and safe ( more )

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[loppears]

i am very glad that you posted these and that you are promoting safety in the community;)

also the examples of safe words" marshmellow,banana, and unicorn sound kind of adorable did you think those up randomley or are they words you have used in the past?

[masterhook]

yea, I have used them in the pasts. The word really does not matter what you use. As long as it something you will have in mind even in the hards part of the play

[lordj571]

Safe words are a must use of the rack can kill or mame some one for the rest of there life and care should be used and only a fool operates any device with out one

[masterhook]

yes but I have talk to people who dont understand this idea. Thank you for saying that.

[masterhook]

I want people to know that I made this vid for people who are into the life but still are newer. I have been doing this for a long time and still think that safe words are needed. If you know someone for a long time then may safe words can be put on away but never taken away, they should always be there for your safety as well as theres.

[C0ldSt33l]

I disagree with your concept of safe words. I only play with my slave NO ONE ELSE and I use RACK not SSC. A Safe Word is a difficult thing to speak when a sub is in subspace. If she can't say the word the purpose is defeated. Just My Take on this.

C0ldSt33l

[masterhook]

but what is why learning who you are playing with is so much of this, RACK is good but only if safety words are also in play. To just get rid of safety words is really not that smart.

[requiemkitty]

Awesome post as usual!

[babyduck198718]

I smiled when you say "you're an idiot!" :P You seem to make me smile Sir.

[shnaaarf]

that stuff is just too scary...i like sweet love :D

[lordj571]

they can not say that they were not warned or hand signials in that case