Re: Re: I Don't Need A Man ( No It's Not What You Think)!!!!

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maslow%27s_hierarchy_of_needs

This is a response video to SNB. I put the link up to Maslow's hierarchy of needs pyramid. I completely disagree with this pyramid as being a way of life for us. I believe that with this particular situation of BW saying they don't need a man. This belief in this pyramid is why. We put our mental and spiritual development on the back burner. Which these developments help us to have a strong moral structure. With strong morals and application of values agreed or promised upon between both parties starting this family, helps the family structure to become strong enough where single parenting is never encouraged.

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[gallyun1]

great vid, how long have you researching this info?

[mindset2008]

I took a psychology class my junior year in high school. I've always had an interest in the development of personalities, character, and relationships. So in my spare time, I used to write observations down of my interactions with others and analyze my mental state, the cause of it and guess the other person's as well. This is a passion for me, but a bit of a mental strain. So I think I won't choose a career in it. But I love spreading the information. I prefer nursing.

[marcdaddy33]

Great video and excellent breakdown of how families usually focus on the most basic necessities without moving up further in the hierarchy of nees with respect ot raising their children... contributing to the belief that the women don't need a man because THEY have already fulfilled their most basic necessities as a result of their careers and jobs.

GREAT VIDEO.

[mindset2008]

Which after the feminist movement, it was easier for women to fulfill their basic needs through careers and jobs. But we also have to realize and clearly define the role of a man in our lives. Which if u want to start a family, he should be as much a part of fulfilling ur safety, love and belonging, esteem, and self actualization needs and vice versa. But we shouldn't rely on others, but make them apart of our mental lives as well. Thank u 4 the support.

[IntegrityLivesOn]

Excellent point, Sis. "We cannot survive without on another!"

[mindset2008]

You know, family should be everything, no matter what.

[pc0p1mp]

The real truth is that this whole problem evolved out of the need to get women into the labor force after child labor was outlawed and to bring the black industrial revolution of the 1950's to a dead halt. Black children used to learn that we had to try harder and be smarter, however, after the avalanche of gov't assist programs of the 70's black women started to claim that they were never going to need a man for anything and now there are books "The Black Girl Curse" all over the place.

[zoeyph1]

i work i pay bills, take care of kids needs and then save up for better! you are so right there needs to be a man in the relation ship doing his part, and there needs to be the womens her part to!!! not no 1 and then 8 but 10 n 10 both parts put that in!!!

[geminiloves]

I soully agree, I dont think anybody else could have said better.

[SeanD44]

You're welcome. More people need to see this vid. But that's the problem...most of the "traffic" is attracted to mostly negative videos.

[mindset2008]

Thank you. It's actually refreshing to hear that. When I would talk about these issues to any friends or family. They'd either bite down hard on me or just look at me like I had 2 heads. So YT being an outlet and finding people who know what I am talking about is even more refreshing. Thank you!!!!