How To Ask Out a Girl

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Asking a girl out on a date can be daunting. But with a positive attitude and a little preparation, you'll soon be wooing the girl—or girls—of your dreams.

To complete this How-To you will need:

A little courage
Some self-assurance
Your best set of clothes

Step 1: Decide where

Decide beforehand where you want to take her, if you're lucky enough to get the date. To a fancy restaurant? A movie? Something more original? If possible, choose something that appeals to her interests.

Step 2: Look your best

Look your best. You don't have to be Brad Pitt to get a date, but it will help if you're well groomed.

Tip: Wear clothes you feel comfortable in. Now is not the time to experiment with a whole new look that may make you feel self-conscious or awkward.

Step 3: Pick your moment

Pick your moment. Asking a girl for a date when she's rushed or with other people may torpedo your chances. Wait until it's just you two and you're not likely to be interrupted.

Step 4: Be yourself

Be yourself. A sincere geek comes across far better than a guy doing a poor imitation of James Bond.

Tip: If you wear cologne, go easy on it: You want to date her, not knock her out.

Step 5: Compliment her

When it's time to make your move, begin by paying her a compliment. She'll feel good about herself and look kindly on you. But be sincere—no one likes to be patronized.

Tip: A funny comment can lighten the mood—just make sure it's not at her expense! Everyone likes someone who can make them laugh.

Step 6: Ask her out

Take the plunge and ask her out. Nervous? Remind yourself that she can only say "yes" or "no."

Step 7: If she says no

If she says no, don't take it personally. You're not attracted to everyone either, right? Plus, her rejection may have nothing to do with you.

Step 8: If she says yes

If she says yes, set a date and time immediately. Now go home and get ready for your date. And whatever you do, don't be late!

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[zach84119]

"try not to wear too much cologne you want to date her not knock her out" GIGIGITY

[jordanspringer8]

0:10 step 1. stare at her 0:29 step 2. take her to a playground 0:48 step 3. Dance infront of a mirror 0:53 step 4. Ask her out while she's taking a sh*t 0:57 step 5. Walk up to her, then walk away 1:17 step 6. Tell her she looks like a zebra in that shirt 1:23 step 7. Get kicked in the testicles 1:30 step 8. look at the camera and smile 1:49 step 9. Slam a book on the table 1:51 step 10. Draw circles K, I used all these tips and it didn't work. What the fuck.

[questephenlovescocoa]

@jordanspringer8 get kicked in the balls lmfao

[a1sauses]

so this is what society has come to... how to videos on asking a girl out, thank you howcast

[aviomaster]

This is too complicated that is why I see thousands of American and European man in THAILAND.

[zombiekillz4566]

@spider9423 Uhhhhhhhh. Isn't that kinda young? Im 13 and my gf is 14

[spider9243]

I'm 15 my gf is 12. ;)

[Tehguy248]

On step 8 I thought he was going to slap her with the notebook LOL

[papaindahouse235]

@codplayerben hmm that is a dilemma try talking to her more if she is in one of your classes(if you are a student) that's probably the best way to get to know her

[codplayerben]

i got a dilemna though. I really like a girl but im not necessarily her friend and we have never really met. The most awkward thing is, we have the same last name! We arent even related

[mattsmithcip]

@mrgames4people Don't say, will you go out with me. Ask her to a movie, a coffee, etc. You don't need to ask "will you be my girlfriend" that can be settled later. After 3-5 dates, you cam discuss if you want to see each other exclusively.

[papaindahouse235]

I'm 99.9% sure that the girl I like likes me cause she compliments me and hugs me A LOT and she asks all my friends if I like her she try's to start conversations with me she tried to get me to ask her out by faking that she likes my friend but I'm too nervous to ask her