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Randy Perskin: Discussing Divorce
Exploring all aspects of life as a divorcée




About Randy Perskin:

I am an attorney in New York and a divorced mother of two. Having experienced matrimonial upheavel first hand I am eager to share my perspective with other women and maintain a forum for discussion of difficult issues and support during this stressful period.

I am a graduate of Barnard College and Fordham University School of Law. I have a background in litigation and real estate as well as elder law.

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[GoodNewsBroadcast]

it is true that when two people fall out of marital love it is best to move their life forward

[67bandit67]

Why marry? The woman at any time can leave and get your house, Alimony, child support and leave you poor for the rest of your life. Wake up Men!!! They can and will take it all away! It is basically slavery for men.

[SHODDANN]

no man with a brain would get married

[Wytchfinde]

@Danachii " I'm sick of people always blaming women for everything . . . "

This is garbage. Men get the brunt of the blame many times more than women do, and hell, even women get lighter sentences for the same crimes (when it comes to that and the legal system) and even get slaps on the wrists when killing their husbands for 'abuse' when there is little or no evidence for it, or sympathy for being mentally ill for killing kids when men would be almost crucified for the same.

[Danachii]

@Wytchfinde BOTH genders can be equally abusive and sociopathic. It's unfair to only blame women when there are men out there who are just as bad. Because the fact is, they're a lot men out there who also abuse their wives and gfs. It goes both ways. I'm sick of people always blaming women for everything when the reality is, BOTH genders are equally at fault.

[Wytchfinde]

@Danachii

Interesting. There are men that talk about how abusive and sociopathic women can be---and it's the truth--and it's labeled "misogynistic."

The fact of the matter is that there are increasingly a serious amount of women that are willingly making themselves undesirable for marriage, much less dating. If that's upsetting to you, need to open your eyes to the reality around you.

[dontgetmarried999]

Women will always change after they get the ring, never co-sign anything with a woman, watch out for marriage fraud with illegal immigrants, avoid long distance relationships, don't live together, never get married, avoid single mothers with kids still at home/it's a package deal, invest at least 10% of your income instead of spending it on women, educate other men about Tom Leykis, always use condoms, be less interested in her, never sign anything legal with a woman, use coupons when dining.

[johnman1911]

@67bandit67 Amen Brother!

[Danachii]

@ArisuUsagawa I know. I'm getting tired of reading about Men's misogynistic views on women. :\ Every women and men are different. My mom is still married to my dad, and it's been almost 28 years now. And they're still happy in their marriage.

[ArisuUsagawa]

Jeez, there's nothing wrong with getting married...just get married to someone you actually like, not eye candy. And if I ever got divorced, no, I wouldn't milk the man for every penny I could get. That's really douchey.

[mrblackalchemist]

@MrKeldoMills I am an MGTOW. So I agree. I have always found it weird that men think people as self centered and as shallow as women would love them for them.

[mrblackalchemist]

@cindyl1417 Do you want men's money? Most women DO. Just like most people are straight. Marriage enriches women the inferior sex.