How to be a happy single / Love coach Carolin Dahlman
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Thing is if we rely on & NEED someone else to make us happy, to trigger our happiness, we also must face the fact that we hand them the power to walk off into the sunset anytime they choose....... to leave, taking our happiness with them, whereas if we are happy within our own skin no one can take our joy away from us.....EVER !!!! Love yourself first is so true.
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Im single
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Giving thanks on a regular basis works. Thanks for sharing all of this.
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you make me smile just watching you.
:D
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@texasmedic416 I'm single and I'm bi-winning.
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MERRIE ME?
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@shechshire sure, you don't absolutely need someone at all times to make you feel happy but, eventually you will want a partner so theirs no point in going out and saying you don't because if that were really true you wouldn't bother talking to any body. I know girls that say this all the time and go out and make out with whatever guy they want. Its human nature. We want sexual and emotional partnership with another.
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now from a phycological point of view, most people drop into this mentality because they've been either hurt or just had a bit of bad luck and use this "you don't need anybody" mentality as a defense mechanism. the truth is that like, loving, or whatever you want to call it requires commitment and by commitment i mean an emotional one in that this person now has the potential to break it leaving you emotionally hurt. There's no use in denying it. All there is is to know who u r and be mature.
Let me let you all in on a little secret. Life is full of a few winners and WHOLE LOT OF SINGLE LOSERS!!!!!! Just like me
texasmedic416 1 year ago
@texasmedic416 Watch you mouth and thoughts. What you say about yourself will come true. You deserve better sweetie
carolinlovecoach 1 year ago
@carolinlovecoach I think a part of society promotes this mind set. People think that you can't be happy, unless you have certain things. Sadly, love's on the top of the list. I know, I struggle w/ aspects of this myself. That's why it's refreshing, to hear u explain the consequences of thinking this way. U end up desperate, single, & going nowhere because of it, or u keep jumping from 1 hectic relationship to another. I know people, who wouldn't know what to do, if they were forced to be alone.
TheRestlessMinds 1 year ago
@TheRestlessMinds Love is everywhere, and happiness is the purpose of life, but we just need to expand our view on how to get love. We already have it :)
carolinlovecoach 1 year ago
Omg, your charisma is just amazing *___*
and btw you're just gorgeous.
I just broke up with my bf not long ago..and this video made me smile and now i'm motivated to move on. thank you so much. gonna sign up for the love letter ♥ kisses,V
vanelynnVOGUE 1 year ago 3
@vanelynnVOGUE oh thanks you :) sign up by emailing, details on my channel, not allowed to post in comments :)
carolinlovecoach 1 year ago