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Christian Dating Tips - Honoring God in Dating - What EVERY couple needs to know!

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Uploaded by on Sep 8, 2008

Many relationship fall apart because many don't know the basics. This video captures some of the basics and hopefully prevents hurt, pain, and permanent damages. Hosea 4:6 says, "For my people are destroyed for lack of knowledge."

The video includes:
Chp 1-What you need to know before getting into a Relationship
Chp 2-How to get Purely the Best
Chp 3-How to enjoy Sex to the Fullest
Chp 4-What's my Role?
Chp 5-How to find the 'One'
Chp 6-Extra Tips

Christian Dating knowledge is not just for believers but for all humans, for we are created by God and God has given the information for us all. God wants our lives, marriage, love, heart to be full of joy and bliss. So let's see what the Creator has designed for us.

"A respectful man/woman knows that the person does NOT belong to them until they are married." The option to leave is respect for the individual.

Enjoy and God bless.

PS. For me and my wife, waiting for marriage was worth it. Thanks to God's advice.

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My Story:
After graduating college, I was single. I felt lonely and I desired to have someone to call my own. I didn't want just a physical partner but one I can relate to emotionally, spiritually, mentally, academically, socially, and more. Then talking to a good brother in Christ, he told me, "Don't pray that God will give you someone; Pray that you'll be good enough, when that someone comes."

So how do I become good enough? I remembered something I learned during a youth Bible study: Learn your Master, then your Mission, then you will learn your Mate. I did just that. I got to know God be reading through One-Year Bibles for a few years. I learned my mission (disciple making) through friends in the Navigators. Then having learned God's design for relationships, I learned how to be a good enough mate, as well as how to find a good mate.

Hence, through prayer and following God, I pray and even gave it up to God. I told God that "if it is meant for me to stay single for the rest of my life, Lord I will consider and make myself ready." I gave up my desire and told God that I will let His desire be priority over mine. That's when my wife entered my life, 2 months after I had that alone talk with God. And the rest, is history.

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Uploader Comments (reynandvalenzuela)

  • Something the video missed about remarriage: 1 Corinthians 7:15. If a believer is abandoned by an unbelieving spouse, let them go; they are not under bondage in such cases.

  • @Recon777x . hmm interesting. i didn't look into that. thanks. will dig deeper and Lord willing, will make a future release.

  • @reynandvalenzuela Yeah. I've been studying it extraordinarily deep recently because my wife abandoned me in August after 15 years of marriage. Apparently she disagrees with what the Bible says about marriage roles and after I learned about how to be a biblical husband she started losing control. Its a huge mess, and I'm devastated but if she is unwilling to live with me, I think the Lord says I am free to marry another. Only downer is that I'm 41 years old now so eligible females are rare.

  • @Recon777x . oh no. i haven't reached that far, and as a newly wed, mostly have the perspective of teaching young people.

    the Lord knows best. i can't even imagine how you feel.

    Lord willing, to find help in your ministrial service to Him should be fine. All the best brother!!! am praying for you.

  • @ 3:30 . For those commenting the 'rape' issue, i said "If purity does not exist, then rape wouldn't be a crime."

    now reverse the negatives.

    That means, rape is a crime because the violator is TAKING something (purity) form another person unwillfully and out of consent. Everyone has, can, and is capable of maintaining sexual purity before marriage, and during marriage (purity in marriage is being faithful).

  • He sounds like a guido from Jersey Shore. ....No offense. (It's a fact. It makes it hard to concentrate on the content. Not my fault.)

  • @delilahroxx . hhaha. nice. i am from jersey.

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  • Such an amazing video!!!!!

  • Excellent video!! God bless your ministry and all those who watch this.

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  • Thank you for blessing me with this video. Thank you and I thank God for your sharing

  • @MrOsbornea I may have been wrong in my assessment of 1 Corinthians 7:15. I can't be sure but I have a feeling it may not be permitting remarriage in the case of legitimate covenant marriages. In my case, I actually married a DIVORCED woman. So her covenant spouse still lives and I was in adultery which I have repented of now. This means I was never truly married and am single and eligible to marry.

  • @Recon777x you'd make a good lawyer 

  • thanks bro, i sub

  • I'm a firm believer in online dating. I just heard about this new dating site the other day called luzyou.com. I really think it's going to be great. People are calling it the Facebook of dating sites. I signed up to be notified when they launch. If you're looking for the best free online dating site, I really think this is going to be it.

  • This is beautiful and well done, putting Him in the forefront God bless you!

  • Well put together bro, I am in the Courtship phase and I totally agree with this video. Praise Jesus for you man good stuff. Love from New Zealand.

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