Jealous Obsession - Girlfriend Needs Help!

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Please Help. I can't get past my boyfriend's past relationships. I'm obsessed with his ex girlfriends and need to know more about them!

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[nbn444]

OK, I've seen 3 of these Ask Dan and Jenn s things.

They were ALL weak, understated, heartless, with advice from a couple that has a keen eye for stating the obvious.

Interesting questions, but you aren't going to learn or gain anything from their superficial spattering and fake laughing.

[DanAndJenn]

Ouch... It's easy to sit back and criticize. Think you can do better - send us your videos where you provide better advice. We love to learn new things. ;-)

[ravemachin]

this is obvious...the women clearly has self esteem issues and should abstain getting involved in relationship until she solves this

she has to start to love herself for what she is and understand what her values are

people evolve so if your partner is evolving well he will go for someone better...chances are YOU will be better than the ex

self esteem problems has nothing to do with dna but if your parents had this well since they raised you ...you learned it from them

[DanAndJenn]

Your comment is right on , but I recommend a little research on the DNA aspect. What you say is correct, but does not explain how a person shows personality traits of a great grand parent or other relative that they've never met - this type of thing happens all the time...

[bArT8472]

they need to really trust each other - that thoughts should never occur then

[DanAndJenn]

But they do - even in a perfect relationship.

I too think counseling is the answer for her - someone to help her remember how great she is and that her happiness does not depend on anyone else.

[JohnnyRock2000]

Huge jealousy is something that cannot be fixed. It is the way a person thinks, is not a simple behavior problem and cannot be changed. In this way it is like narcissism, a brain process that is untreatable. There is one cure for huge jealousy. Run like hell.

[SenneffRules]

@melissayfelix it's your fault

[mexifaith]

@melissayfelix hi there I am going through the same problem as well. IDK what to do but all I can say is leave him....maybe he will get scorn that way. If he really loves you he should be willing to change or seek help.

[melissayfelix]

Hey Dan and Jenn,

Here is my question..

I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now, and I really see a future with him. Hes smart funny caring romantic and gorgeous. what he isnt is down to earth.. He is a jealous one. He always jumping to the conclusion that im seeing someone behind his back. which i am most certainly not . I find it insulting that he thinks this way of me as i am a hundred percent committed to him alone. He is paranoid and i am sick of having to reassure him.

[emiliafiallo]

@nbn444 you're right

[hwymadness850]

My girlfriend is so jelouse and controling. Deffinately Bi-Polar. Obsessive and manupulative. I cant take this any more, but she has no where to go.... How can a man free himself without throwing her into the streets?

[robbieC971]

@nbn444 bt it is right, these vidios are useless!

[bomberchips]

@servingthetrueking

a bitch?

[anonymous11228]

therapy isn't free. I don't have any money and I need help :(

[PopeyeCove]

Half of the people commenting on here act like they know what the fuck is going on between two people they've never met. That's insane. As for the advice on the video, it's good. Insecurity is an unattractive quality... get help and grow up... in other words.