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[pvampire]

If the subject is weighing heavy on you, then by all means approach it but only if you want to or you feel the need to. I'm terrible at watching video's and then comparing myself, and then feeling inadequate. I dont cut myself much slack at all. To me though, your life seems great! There never was a coming out for me BTW until I was an adult, over 30, When I was your age, my parents would have taken it very badly but they grew and matured in thier old age and the right time came around..:)

[pvampire]

Hey Martin, I think I know how your feeling. You see people on YT who are very open with thier parents on the subject of sexuality, and it makes you wonder how you should be. I think all people are different. Some people never talk sexuality with thier parents, some do and both ways are ok. Every household is different. Someday the subject may come up and a new "normal" may be established then..Know what I mean? I say one day at a time and dont stress this subject.

[The1ScottSpot]

Keep your head up. Struggling with your sexuality can be one of the most frustrating, difficult things to go through. Especially when you don't always have the support of others. Remember that accepting yourself and believing who you are is what comes first, and is most important.

[Puckle74]

can you translate 5:01-5:05

[OLDS98]

It is good to see you again Martin. I am catching up on my subscriptions. You seem to be well and taking care of yourself. You are looking good too. You will deal with coming out as you see fit Martin.

[martinw93]

@alaninnh should be my next appointment, 22nd december :)

[bgwillys]

Thanks you, thank you, thank you! It's so nice to actually hear your great accent again, and to be able to hear what you're talking about. -Brian-

[alaninnh]

Martin, how much longer until the braces come off? You've got a great smile with them and I'm eager to see you smile without them.

[livinginlux]

Sorry about your situation. Sure, there are plenty of cases when coming out worsens your relationship with your parents. My advice in this case was based on what we know about Martin's mother, what we've seen of her and what he's said about her. I didn't make that clear in my comment, but that's where I was coming from.

However, as you age and become independent, I think there's a lot to be said for coming out to your family, even when they have a strong negative reaction.

[SteltekOne]

Don't be so sure. Some parents can be pretty stuck up when it comes to this subject. When I told my mom, she just brushed it off and had the nerve to tell me that I couldn't know that I was gay, since I'd never had a girlfriend. I have not bothered with any further coming out attempts to her or the rest of my family since then and quite frankly, I see no need to do so anyway as long as I'm single.

That said, maybe I've got the unfortunate exception to everybody's open and accepting parents. ;)

[jon8994a]

-[ HUG ]- :]

[xsonarisx]

I agree with you Martin. Sometimes it matters and sometimes it doesn't. It's always up to you in the end. A lot of us are in the same boat as you (me included). What you're experiencing is very common. I wish we didnt have to think about these issues, but until that day we just gotta live on.

-Justin