Should you tell a guy that you like him as more than a friend? Three signs he's into you

Simply put, no you should not tell this guy that you like him as more than a friend! And here's why: Relationships should develop gradually. And if you lay your cards on the table and tell him your feelings, you might not only get hurt but you could lose the friendship as well. Instead, look for these signs: Does he text you first, or does he only respond to your texts? Does he merely wave when he sees you in passing, or does he run up to you eagerly when he sees you? Also, does he give you lots of eye contact when you're standing in a group? Or does he look at everyone else in the room? Those are signs that he does or doesn't have feelings for you. Even if all indications are that he has feelings for you, still don't tell him! Instead, let the relationship develop slowly. Long lasting relationships start out as friendships.

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[mariedubuque]

xoTaylor--Tell him, as long as you are ok if he doesn't give you the answer you want to hear..meaning, if he doesn't feel the same way, your friendship may be strained for a little while until the awkwardness goes away. But on the other hand, if you don't say something, you may never know. Also think about this: If he does like you, wouldn't he have said something by now? Maybe not if he is shy.

[mariedubuque]

Chelsea--keep talking to him, but don't listen to your friends. Ultimately it is up to him. I think he likes you, but you can't push it (which it sounds like you're not.)

[mariedubuque]

He is probably better at communicating in writing. It is easier for a lot of people, because you can think about what you want to say. Try talking to him more one-on-one and see how he responds.

[mariedubuque]

Badside--I think five years is long enough. It would have developed into a relationship by now. Consider this a friendship, only. Maybe someone else has a different take on this situation?

[mariedubuque]

rigormortis--I think he might like you, but doesn't want to admit it. That's why when he found out you like him, he was distant for a week. So keep it friends until he feels comfortable with you being his "girlfriend." If you just go with the flow, you two will be a couple and he won't really know it!

[mariedubuque]

GiveMeLife--Start talking to him! He likes you! Otherwise he wouldn't have been so embarrassed when you caught him eyeing you.

[USAProud1000]

listen 2 her, i told a guy 1 time, never do it again

[punderful920]

So you're saying I shouldn't tell him that I like him? I am supposed to just keep these feelings inside, and pretend that everything is normal, and then the relationship will "develop gradually"? What if he also follows your advice? Hm? Then we are both just sitting here waiting for the other person to do something and nothing happens.

[lolzabubbles]

Help!!!! My crush was very nice to me at the beggining of the term and then he drifted off to another girl. Now they are going out and I have to admit...I am pretty jealous. I try to be as nice as I can to this other girl but inside...I really hate her. Please Help!!!!!!!!!

[newbetomfan]

Hey i have the same thing except we've been friends for allot longer about 10-11 years now but i really like him now and , i think he may feel the same also he dose every thing positive to the 'he likes you' symptoms help?!

[McTofuwuerfel]

What if both think the same way...nothing happens and you gonna regret that you did not tell the other one about your feelings. True story.

[rozeautopet]

yeah what the guy below me said

[RIOTrhiannon]

im sorry but i dont agree, your generalising all guys as one type. not all guys act the same in this situation, depending on their own personalities and confidence.

[blueirishluck79]

Wow!! I messed up bad than!! Just a couple of weeks ago i told the guy that i liked him for more than a friend and told him what a great guy he was..i told him i did not want a answer cause o dont think he looked twice at me like that but just needed to get it off

My chest..he now has become distance with me and short but said this would not wreck are friendship..i told him cause he gave me so many signs he liked me..what do i do now?? Should i give it time and give him distances? ? Help :(

[beaanibee]

thank you so much, this just helped me a lot. i mean you just described the exact situation i'm in wow !!

[lawshorizon]

Great Video! ..... So - how to get someone to like you? ..... you can't - it's all a natural thing and "not" something that should be pushed (as the video mentions). The only problem is if there's a lack of time and opportunity for things to develope - sometimes there's no choice but to risk a push.