Sorry this is so long! Keep in mind what you need/want. Find out specifically what she needs/wants, what scares her, what worries her. Then you can both work on making it happen. The TMatesFTM channel on here is good. I've heard about one called TranscribersFTM as well. It's nice to know you aren't alone in your concerns. Keep your head up and keep talking to each other. Hope this helped a bit.
Sorry this is so long! There are some good partner videos here that might be helpful to her. The TMatesFTM channel is a good one. There is also TranscribersFTM that I've heard about. Keep in mind what it is that you want/need and be sure she knows what it is. Find out what she wants/needs, what scares her specifically and then you both can work on making it happen. Hope this helps. It's nice to know you aren't alone in the troubles and good times. :)
I really dont have much advice other than remain true to yourself. I know it's hard because your partner isn't sure about things, but you need to be you. My partner was in a relationship and wasn't supported in his FTM dream. It ended up being more hurtful because they weren't able to really talk about it. She told him flat out no way. At least your partner hasn't said that! :) I can only offer the advice of keep talking about it. Let her know how important it is to you. (con't)
Sorry this is so long! Keep in mind what you need/want. Find out specifically what she needs/wants, what scares her, what worries her. Then you can both work on making it happen. The TMatesFTM channel on here is good. I've heard about one called TranscribersFTM as well. It's nice to know you aren't alone in your concerns. Keep your head up and keep talking to each other. Hope this helped a bit.
sazzycrystal 2 years ago
Sorry this is so long! There are some good partner videos here that might be helpful to her. The TMatesFTM channel is a good one. There is also TranscribersFTM that I've heard about. Keep in mind what it is that you want/need and be sure she knows what it is. Find out what she wants/needs, what scares her specifically and then you both can work on making it happen. Hope this helps. It's nice to know you aren't alone in the troubles and good times. :)
sazzycrystal 2 years ago
I really dont have much advice other than remain true to yourself. I know it's hard because your partner isn't sure about things, but you need to be you. My partner was in a relationship and wasn't supported in his FTM dream. It ended up being more hurtful because they weren't able to really talk about it. She told him flat out no way. At least your partner hasn't said that! :) I can only offer the advice of keep talking about it. Let her know how important it is to you. (con't)
sazzycrystal 2 years ago