If a man TRULY wants you* Put YOURSELF first

I've gotten a lot of relationship questions lately, so I decided to read the LIST, that was written by a MAN!!
Give your relationship advice.

Here is the LIST:

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.

Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve

then heck no, you can't "be friends" A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

Don't stay because you think "it will get better" You'll be mad at yourself

a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.

He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,

Why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.

If something bothers you, speak up.

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has

more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.

! He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else's man.

Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.

You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about

baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists

of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.

Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your

always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.

Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate

them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN, SO TAKE A HINT..............
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[e84fresh]

Women should put themselves first ? From what I see a lot of women want to put themselves first just so they can boost their ego or financially get what they want. If a man truly wants your he would show you commitment. Maybe if a lot of these woman stop fuckin with THUGS and stop treating a good man like shit than they would see a difference.

[princeofthepen]

This is a powerful message!!!

[DruIsAPainInTheAss]

haha well they r f-ing stupid

[Atypical82]

move slower and take your time in relationships, be friends and get to know each other, and dont have sex until you're married, only a man who waits for marriage is worthy of your gift, and vice versa

[midwesthustle1]

good video. God bless you.

[midwesthustle1]

Bottom line.... If you don't know God or have him in your life man or woman can not be trusted. Only to their flesh. The prob is that men fall in love with a women that should not be in a relationship. They know he is a good man. They play faithful and dog him on the low. Whatever woman that comes after that gets treated.

Jai

[mamamucka2]

I realize you got on two different earrings! Great video

[jmk69able]

what do you do when this guy makes out with you and you like him but he has a gf i just dont think its right to kiss a girl and then just leaves and gose with the other girl

[ariadnelps]

what do you do when ur bf cheats on you? >:(

[elfuckenseeyou]

i was on the news papers and all over the t.v and was double crossed by a dirty cop so their was only one thing to do grab my ak47 and run south so when i was living out their i got hooked up with a lill gig doing the dam thing if u know what i mean so i had all the wemon looking at new meat and being that im both mexican american i was prime rib so after about a year i met this chick that was from L.A so we clicked in life she loved money that fucking greedy bitch but so did i

[elfuckenseeyou]

that im fucking very good at knowing womens needs and its a lill complicated at first but im getting better as i get older and the best thing about mex is that i keep getting older and they stay the same age lol !!!but they just want to be tooken care of payed attention to and held high so when other women see you taking care of bussinessssss they all want to fuck u now this aint no old perv fucking with lill bitches im 24 years yung and when i was 18 years old i left to mexico on the run

[elfuckenseeyou]

baby girl i am a mexican male and race is just a shell on the out side to me and a back round that we all come from and cant choose but what i have to say in regards to your video is that i go to mex... very often and i have cars houses and a lil bit money and the women of mexico are all giving them selves up to the first fucking ugly azz paisa that cumz their way and they have no respect for them selves and in the lil towns im from every body know each others bussines and my point is