It all started with a demon named bhondra... She was seducing me, wanting to kill me. He told me how she entered into dreams & that she haunted me in my sleep. He smirked the whole time we talked. She was powerful & could kill me. He was my guru to go to for help. No one I talked to about the nightmare I was dealing with wanted to help, they wanted to suppress the problems & emotionally, among other ways, cage me. They became the problem & he drove the wedge to widen it. He knew what he was doing & the underestimated him. My fear drove me to fight, his control made him the only person I could trust. I've forgiven him, but for those that knew & tried to control the situation, the healing is still happening.
It amazes me how people will try to remove themselves from the situation when they realize they've harmed by helping. That doesn't work in abuse. The survivor cannot run from the pain that's created & sometimes the only way to heal is to face the problems head on. If we don't stand up & fight it. If we don't call it out for what it is, then someone else will take their place & so on.
Question : When someone trying to help crosses that line & becomes the abuser what would you think the victim should do?
The signs of spiritual abuse: http://www.slm.org/trtdigst/articles/abuse.html
Spiritual Abuse Information: http://www.dallascult.com/index.php?page_id=271
Grace Valley Christian Center/Allegations: http://daviswiki.org/Grace_Valley_Christian_Center/Allegations
Stop Spiritual Abuse Blog: http://stop-spiritual-abuse.blogspot.com/
Over the Rainbow: http://www.pandys.org/overtherainbow/spiritualabuse.html
thank you for the smile you just put on my face
symptomy 2 years ago