Relationships after weight loss ( with or without surgery)

This is a very difficult subject and someone needed to address it...Why not me?
If you have any questions feel free to contact me....Thank you for watching!

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• wls
• gastric bypass surgery
• weight loss
• relationships
• troubles
• communication
• help
• friends

[mia2292]

I think that all relationships have a life cycle, some are longer or shorter than others. I read a book once that said "when we lived to be 25, 'till death' do us part' might have been okay, but now that we live to be over 80, it might not be so realistic." The fact that a relationship ended, does not mean it was a failure. It just means its life cycle was over. Relationships add richness to your life in all cycles.

[allisonpacino]

@mia2292 This is so true....I love how you put this Mia...Thank you :)

[khamm827]

Love this video girl!!! You look amazing! :-)

[allisonpacino]

@khamm827 Thank you!

[SarahWillBeSkinny]

Thank you for touching on this... you're right, it's NOT talked about enough. I'd also like to see more videos on "dating" after WLS. You look AMAZING... and you look so HAPPY! SO I'm glad you're doing well! :o)

[allisonpacino]

@SarahWillBeSkinny Yes dating after weight loss surgery is a big issue too....and I am in that myself right now. This surgery changes things and we have to catch up you know? Thank you girl!!

[dawnmarie416]

Great video Allison! Thank you for sharing from your heart and I really respect you for only saying kind things about Joe, that is so mature of you. It's amazing to witness your growth!

[mermaidTa2]

TY Allison for doing this sensitive & honest video. You are somewhat of a celebrity here in the WLS Community, so I was wondering why I never heard about Joe anymore. I commend you for doing what you needed to do to make YOU happy, Life is too short to waste a minute on just ok. You are truly wise beyond your years. and I know now everything is good with you, and that makes all of us here happy. TY for all you share w/ us

PS I LOVE my Frapp Maker!! Craigs List $35. SCORE!!

[theqinn]

my sex has chage in a way bad im lonvin it more and would expect it to better for us all but thast was not the case i he change just like me he was scared just like yoiu nssid but you have to talk that iw the only answer

[theqinn]

i love you so much i wish i could meet ytoui

[sweetbabyblues70]

relationships are def.different after weight loss and its sometimes very difficult to work through. thank you for making this video. if you wouldnt mind, id like to talk to you more about it. maybe face to face??? let me know if your willing to do that!!! thank you again for posting this

[FatMedStudent]

This is a GREAT video! You were right on target! Thanks for posting it!

[allisonpacino]

@candycoatedcenter Thank you for posting....This is a real issue ,but it doesn't mean that everyone will have relationship problems. I just wanted people to be aware that it can happen and not to let it go like I did...I hope it only brings you two closer :)