Spanking Children Bare Bottom and molestation.wmv

In this video I cover the dangers of spanking children, this one is more focused on bare bottom spanking and its sexual connections. I want to clarify things I didn't cover or go into depth on the first video.

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• Spanking children
• bare bottom spanking
• sexual violation
• spanking fetish
• spanking effects

[1991ri]

acutally, i think you have been hurt deeply by the spanking. I was hurt too. Just a few of times spanked in bare bottom, but 20 yrs, I still can't forget the nightmare.

Have you find a way to forget it? I also like to forget it...but it's hard..

Could you email me and share the feeling or the way you do to forget? Thx

twforget@yahoo.com.hk

[gypsyslaveprincess]

@1991ri I will message you at the link provided. But I will also answer you here. There really is no way to forget.

there are only ways of coping with it. Most people cope with it by making excuses for their parents or whoever did it to them. They deny their feelings as a child as if they don't matter. These people become future spankers, in this way they get out of the hurt, at least on a surface level. I don't recomend this method. You don't want to pass it down. You know better.

[gypsyslaveprincess]

@1991ri There is no way to forget. You can not think about it but it may come up. Constant reminders and the dreams. You just have to come to terms with your feelings. Do what it takes to heal. Even if that means seperation from family for a while. You are better off if you don't forget. Those who forget are more likely to do it to their own children. I will email you more when i get the chance

[guistar26]

You seem to be high which doesn't help but.... I think you have to realize that your particular experience with spanking is not the same as everyone else's. And plenty of people who were NEVER spanked develop spanking fetishes. Many people grow up to have shoe fetishes. Can you blame your mother for wearing shoe's?

I totally understand the resentment but at some point you have to realize you are the way you are! Life aint perfect and you could have turned out the same way without spanking.

[gypsyslaveprincess]

@guistar26 To have a child expose their bare bottom while someone smacks it, is a violation to the child. The child feels uncomfortable and violated. I and many others feel that way. Hitting the bottocks also causes blood to flow to the genitals causing arrousal. Also just because someone develops a spank fetish without being spanked doesn't mean spanking doesn't increase the chances because it does. The shoe fetish is a whole different thing. A child is not violated if a mother wears shoes.

[ravinagrey]

Gypsyslaveprincess: Are you just against bare bottom spanking or are you against spanking in general?

[1991ri]

I wanna know how is your relationship with your mum? In fact, I have never told her my feeling about my bare bottom spanking from her. But I do believe that I don't know how to tell.. A little bit shame to talk on that...And what she thinks is I really deserved it... Unfortunately, I had nightmare on bare bottom spanking in these 20 yrs.

Could you message me by email? Thanks.

twforget@yahoo.com.hk

[gypsyslaveprincess]

@ojtrilipiraparabimba I just watched it. First thing I noticed was a racial divide. I will do a video on the subject. Thanks for bringing it to my attention.

[gypsyslaveprincess]

@guistar26 No I am not high in this video. Sorry. This is a really difficult subject to talk about and I do my videos while the camera is running and are not pre-written. No not everyone ends up with a spank fetish, but many do. It is much more popular than most believe. Yes, people are different so that also means nobody knows who will end up with a fetish. Are we willing to take that risk with our children? Sadly yes. Regardless if the child develops a fetish or not, it is still a violaton