The Strawberry Letter

Why is it different for women? All the rules of engagement and conduct seem to be different.
Listening to the radio just reminds me of just how sexist our society still is!

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[Sheshe416]

I just don't understand I said the same exact thing the male talk show host said. He was applauded for his candor and i was judged harshly by women. The men were ok with it. We need to stop. We need to empower ourselves.

[Sheshe416]

Well said sugar. Ditto squared!

[Sheshe416]

I was talking more about how the information was received coming from a woman. It was, wow you cold, whereas when a male gave the same message it was like at least he's didn't lie. No judgements where made on his character.

[TheEccentricDiva]

Let's add the Gender Perception/Deception Code on Love to the Psychology journals! We all know there are different types of love but when it comes to relationships it's so effin twisted! I wish the same rules applied for both genders!

[everlastingcurves]

pt2 Doesn't matter if you love him. Doesn't matter if the relationship is a healthy one or not. As a woman you're just supposed to be "grateful" to have a good man. *SMH* Ah yeah mama, the rules are very different and it's a damn shame. We're all human. There a going to be some tired ass men and there are going to be some tired ass women. ??? Humans are interesting and life is never boring!! LOL!! = )

[everlastingcurves]

Girl, your videos always get me worked up and shaking my head. You know it's BULL. The rules ARE different for men and women. They'll praise a man for being upfront. As if you should be grateful for him being honest when his ass SHOULD be honest anyway. When it's the woman doing it 1. other women will judge her because women are VERY quick to pass judgement on each other and 2. we're not supposed to inconvenience a man in any way. If you have a good man, they tell you to hold onto him. Doesn't

[kareemtiheed]

It's not really different. I think how the situation is handled that is different. When I was in like with her after loving her. We decided to do some searching our love to see if it was worth saving. Because all relationships go through im not in LOVE stage. The key is to decide what to do about it.