Women Approaching Men

I do not have hair details in this video. All of my hair clips that I was working on have been lost due to my computer crashing : ( I will have to work on building my collection back up so just be patient b/c I know there are those who are going to be interested in how my hair is styled.

Again-this is an ongoing conversation that you are welcomed to join. Men, how do you feel about women approaching you?

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• african
• american
• dating
• relationships
• love

[80Cetbal08]

American women need to calm down with their unwritten rules in all areas of life. Especially dating.

[omega7373]

@80Cetbal08 Why?

[nycgame]

@omega7373

because it's bullsh*t lol

when women say these things all men here is.

"he gotta do this, he's gotta do that. but he can't do this while doing that"

It's cool that your father told you how to be a lady, if that's even possible.

However you' should know not ALL men are the same.

Some guys approach, some don't, some like to chase women, others don't see the point in chasing women

But hey if you are one of those women that feels it's a dire need for a man to approach you then do you.

[omega7373]

@nycgame Sometimes dating seems like BS in general. It is possible for me to be a lady and after it's all said it done I do what's comfortable for me. A lot of people got hype off of my saying that I don't approach men but it's really simple-I mind my business lol. I don't sit around saying, "I like him; he should approach me." I am too busy living my life. Truth be told, I think people get too heavy into dating too young.

[s0lidified0g0fficial]

u mentioned that men like a challenge. Well I thought it was the other way around... Or it can go both ways!!! Becaz to my knowledge most black women nowadays are attracted to men who are already involved with sum1, married, or already have a bunch of women chasing him. As a result of thinking it must be sumthin he's doing right. & I've also been told by numerous women, that females want what they can't have... Not every woman in general, but a vast majority!!!

[omega7373]

@s0lidified0g0fficial We do not know "most" of anybody so it's not accurate to say that most bw like men who are involved or that the majority of females want what they cannot have. There are women who like a challenge but going after a married man isn't a challenge...it's simply wrong

[darknluvly702]

There's nothing wrong with women approaching men IF thats what they wanna do. But me personally, the flower don't chase the bee!

[scinnyc]

i feel what your sayin but on the other hand; i'm sick and tired of women, esspecially black women always complainin about them not bein able to find a good man. how can you find a good man if you only talk to the ones that talk to you? the most bold men are the jerks,playaz and abusers. trust me i know. i know guys personally that get at females all day and pull 70% of them and treat em like pornstars and atms. i need to make a video about this and really brake it down

[Don818192]

depends on how you present yourself: shall you find your type of man

[Don818192]

@darknluvly702 I thought woman are equal hahaha. woman and men are different if thats what you are referring to with the flower and bee analogy. woman give birth to future men and woman, so therefore it should be a given right for women to choose their partners. This society is upside down

[Famfriass]

@turdsandwich72 You didn't have to ask for it...nor did I say you did. You are bitter, you have a crazy way of thinking about women and relationships and honestly you are too mentally damaged to even think about dating...go get help please. As a matter of fact, don't even "date" women who approach you b/c I still don't think that will make much difference. Also, I am "single" (never told you that) because, at the young age of 19, I am more focused on other great things. Ha!

[turdsandwich72]

@Famfriass Did I even ask for your advice? No. I made a comment about the video and then you started judging me with your nonsensical babble. What does it matter to you if I am bitter towards women? So you think that its ok for a women to approach a man for sex, but not for dating? Really? You really need to stop giving advice. Instead of judging people you don't know, maybe you should look in the mirror and try to figure out why you are single.

[Famfriass]

@turdsandwich72 Take the advice or leave it....stop the whining as it's not attractive. Also, stop being so defensive----your comments do come off as bitter--first you say that you will be single if a woman doesn't want to approach you, then in the same breath you say that you don't trust women. Hey, that's your right to not trust, but stop complaining about it and acting as though every other woman should have to pay for crimes of the latter. Your outlook isn't positive.

[turdsandwich72]

@Famfriass Considering that you don't know me, I think its a bit presumptuous on your part to think that I need to cleanse my mind and speak positive affirmations. Actually, I am a very positive person with my family and friends. Everyone has their own standards and preferences. I prefer to not approach women. It doesn't make any less of a positive person. I just chose to be cautious, not negative, when it comes to women. Why is it odd that I choose to have a women approach me?