Resentment--The Silent Relationship Killer/ Black Love Black Marriage B Intentional

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What do you do if you are in a space in your relationship where you've developed what we call the silent killer: Resentment? Resentment is anger and bitterness rolled up into one and it is deadly when it's not addressed.

Here, we deal with a wife and mother of 5 who says she has enjoyed being submissive to her husband and really hasn't had any problems in that area until---her husband lost his job. Now, the dynamics in the relationship have shifted and she feels as if she is emasculating him by some of her words and actions sometimes. The good thing is that she is truly concerned about how she uses her power in the relationship to lift up or out down her man. She wants to know how to deal with this situation. We will first ask her to deal with herself and what she's feeling on the inside and be honest about what's going on inside of her. When we can be honest about what's happening with us it frees us up to have clarity of mind about our feelings towards another. Listen in to be released from resentment.


Black Marriage. Black Love. B Intentional.

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  • Thank you guys so much.

  • Excellent, true BLACK culture and love. I love it!

  • The nature of the question itself is sad. Its like the letter writer is completely detached from her actions, as though she's witnessing herself on TV with a 5 minute time delay. Want to stop saying hurtful things? Well, stop saying hurtful things!! Does she need this same coaching in dealing with her friends and children or just him? Sounds like selective character to me.

  • " I enjoyed being a submissive wife until he lost his job".... I guess this is where the better or worst part comes in ehh.

  • thank YOU...

  • NICE VIDEO....

  • side comment .. where do you get your jewelry

  • Hello the MAATS, I appreciate the help you both are putting out there because our race is in need and they just not realizing it time is passing us by must of us think we're getting more chances in life but what they don't see is that time has gotten harder " fun ND THE FEAR OF SETTLING DOWN N TAKING CHARGE IS ANOTHER, we need more couples like you so the young ones to stop thinking of taking advantage of being young but vulnerable to married man for few bucks even shopping also AIDS is real

  • Are We Talking About People Or Just Black's?? Cause I;m Starting To Feel "The Black Resentment" Thing Go'in On,... In Like TheTitle Of Your Clip's. It Would be a Shame for such an Obviously Intelligent Couple Like Yourselves, to be Seperatist's,..

  • do you two have children...?

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