I don't think pointing someone's complaining is always complaining; e.g., if you tell the person who can change the behavior if they didn't notice. Not all negative comments are complaints, as is pointed out in the video. Maybe asking "Was that a complaint?" is more reasonable; then you can discuss what constitutes a complaint. Does the mindset of the speaker affect whether a given utterance is a complaint? In that case, mindreading could be what had you interpret something as complaininng.
Your'e allowed to ask someone,life,or god or whatever for what you want.You are just not complain in the meantime,because it makes it hard for energy/life to alter in your favor...I just started this a couple days ago.I'm on my third day :)
When you point out someone's complaining,you're complaining about them complaining.A complaint is comment about anything negative.Since you're asking for the soup to be warmed up,it's not a complaint..but it would be if you go on and on about how it's cold,and you hate that,and they're so dumb and you'll never eat that restraunt again...etc.
"Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, 'Let me take the speck out of your eye,' when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye.
How is telling someone he (or she) complained and needs to move their bracelet different from telling a waiter the soup is cold and needs to be heated up?
I don't think pointing someone's complaining is always complaining; e.g., if you tell the person who can change the behavior if they didn't notice. Not all negative comments are complaints, as is pointed out in the video. Maybe asking "Was that a complaint?" is more reasonable; then you can discuss what constitutes a complaint. Does the mindset of the speaker affect whether a given utterance is a complaint? In that case, mindreading could be what had you interpret something as complaininng.
kennita728 2 years ago
Your'e allowed to ask someone,life,or god or whatever for what you want.You are just not complain in the meantime,because it makes it hard for energy/life to alter in your favor...I just started this a couple days ago.I'm on my third day :)
fallcrysilk 2 years ago
When you point out someone's complaining,you're complaining about them complaining.A complaint is comment about anything negative.Since you're asking for the soup to be warmed up,it's not a complaint..but it would be if you go on and on about how it's cold,and you hate that,and they're so dumb and you'll never eat that restraunt again...etc.
fallcrysilk 2 years ago
The videos are very good and quite inspiring.Thank you very much
saatpeters 2 years ago
I believe telling the waiter the soup is cold is a fact it needs heating up they need the truth.
But complaining, moaning in general every day about everything! is negative and very bad for the constant negative thinker.
tinkamyra 2 years ago
Matthew 7:3-5
"Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, 'Let me take the speck out of your eye,' when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye.
tigtigexpress 2 years ago
How is telling someone he (or she) complained and needs to move their bracelet different from telling a waiter the soup is cold and needs to be heated up?
kennita728 3 years ago