Domesticated Women - Do Women Use Work As Excuse?

Do Women Use Work as an excuse not to be domestic?

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[TibetMoses]

i am a guy i this guy say it is about standards, first he needs to ask himself who set the standards. i am from africa and i can tell you that the duties are shared equally. example, sometimes my father comes home early and he cooks and we my mom comes home early she cooks. and my father is a traditionalist. this roles of men and women is western culture is totally inadequate for a balanced relationship.

[grlmimi]

Domestication is more ideal for stay at home moms or wives. If she is on the same grind the rules are different.

If she is making three or four times what your are making, she is not going to put up with that caveman mentality. Stop dreaming!

I personally believe that a woman should cater to her husband. But he should help out and lighten her load in every way possible.

[ChortortleC]

In a household with two adults and only one breadwinner, the other adult should take most of the domestic responsibilities. Gender is largely irrelevant. (Pregnancy and nursing are tasks that can only be performed by the woman, but they're easy enough to balance out.)

[EAnthonyMusic]

Why did no one ever say "Hire a maid?" Who has time to do everything now-a-days to do everything, clean house, and get a full eight hours' sleep?

[nubianlegalmind]

Domestication is a topic that shouldn't even come up unless we're discussing marriage. Men should not expect those type of "wife duties" in a relationship. I wouldn't expect that in a boyfriend. A husband? Yes.

[JESUSanswers1]

Only one comment you made was really true, and that one was YES, you are and a**hole! First of all if you met ALL of your so call 'responsibilities' as a MAN, then why your girl gotta work. You can't have your cake and eat it too. You want us to work, have your babies, clean up behind you, & then you hire someone to cut the grass and fix the car... U a**hole. God help the woman u end up with!

[Jalafian]

Wow. The standards in some of these scenarios are unreasonable. I definitely like the guy's perspective that wants the balance. I have no problem with you being the man, but it doesn't make you any less of a man if I sometime need help and you help me out.

[gerlsus]

that's why they usually get with white women because the white woman won't challenge a black man's so-called standards. She feeds his fragile ego to make him feel he's the "man in charge". Which is why the more I viewed this, none of these "black men" don't seem to fit with a black woman, in other words, I can't see them with black women. Just the way they talk and laugh and their demeaning, makes me see a white woman beside each one of them!

[gerlsus]

that is the speaking of a arrogant, male chauvanistic man, anytime you expect your wife to come off a work to do dinner while he sits on his ass and do nothing, is a potential cheater in the marriage and a lot of times result to men being on the downlow...especially with a white man.

[gerlsus]

The bald guy in the yellow shirt has his head up his ass! speaking as a guy, he's the type that will wind up cheating on you and eventually get with a guy, usually a white guy on the down low. That's why you women, black women need to be working so that in case of situations resulting from being with guys like that you can support yourself. Don't be a doormat for him because the white women would never have to be.

[mymanlovesme1]

first and formost dude is on some b.s god made the woman and the man to stand side by side. as a woman i take care of my husband because i love him. its a partnership.some men are a-holes and have taken the gender roles to a new low. some niggas in my book will starve,live in shit and garbage, if nigga dont help with shit .i will be at my moms niggas is ridiculous. thank god for my partner and best friend. a crutch lol i work full time and u do too then if we half on utilities we half on chores