Thanks for uploading this, I've had to end a friendship because of this emotional vampireism . I've never been that successful in my life but, I'm happy go lucky and like to think of my self as optimist but, this other person has superiority complex, biggest of ego, goes out of his way to ruin my day, huge disturbance to my positive energy :P , basically a attention whore and drama queen. Needless to say I'm +200% happier with out this person in my life. Why did I put up with it for so long.....
Yes I've noticed some people get into the competitive nonsense, where they look at other people as obstacles who they should compete against. A really good book explaining why people do much better when they cooperate instead of competing against each other, is No Contest written by Alfie Kohn. :)
This makes so much sense... I wrote a message to you from a depressed state the other day.... if I am one of these, I need to look deeper into myself. Honestly, waking up to find most of what you've been told is a lie and to care so much for life and this beautiful world... it's overwhelming... please forgive if my sadness drained you... I find you interesting and OPEN... sometimes the answer is in the questions... or at least the questioning... stay strong.
@TheCavecricket neuro linguistic programming can do tha as well
MikeDammann 8 months ago
@TheCavecricket I do know for a fact of at least one person who was sent my way to sidetrack and drain me.
MikeDammann 8 months ago
@TheCavecricket most of the women pretending to love me were emotional vampires.
MikeDammann 8 months ago
Thanks for uploading this, I've had to end a friendship because of this emotional vampireism . I've never been that successful in my life but, I'm happy go lucky and like to think of my self as optimist but, this other person has superiority complex, biggest of ego, goes out of his way to ruin my day, huge disturbance to my positive energy :P , basically a attention whore and drama queen. Needless to say I'm +200% happier with out this person in my life. Why did I put up with it for so long.....
Tomatoffxi 8 months ago
Yes I've noticed some people get into the competitive nonsense, where they look at other people as obstacles who they should compete against. A really good book explaining why people do much better when they cooperate instead of competing against each other, is No Contest written by Alfie Kohn. :)
Rockguitarnow 9 months ago
This makes so much sense... I wrote a message to you from a depressed state the other day.... if I am one of these, I need to look deeper into myself. Honestly, waking up to find most of what you've been told is a lie and to care so much for life and this beautiful world... it's overwhelming... please forgive if my sadness drained you... I find you interesting and OPEN... sometimes the answer is in the questions... or at least the questioning... stay strong.
eilzed 9 months ago
Awesome...really like it! We spoke about this Egotism yesterday!
:-)
MsRonnyb 9 months ago