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Self-Improvement Tips : How to Be Outgoing

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Uploaded by on Sep 29, 2008

Being outgoing requires interest in things outside of yourself. Find out more about being outgoing with tips from professional psychologist in this free video about self-improvement tips.

Expert: Dr. Paul Vehorn
Contact: www.AskDoctorPaul.com
Bio: Dr. Paul Vehorn has been a nationwide talk show host on Sun Radio Network and IRN.com. He is also the author of 'Dynamic Dating' and 'Boomer Girls, a Women's Guide to Men and Dating.'
Filmmaker: Christopher Rokosz

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  • hes a rapist in disguise looking for victims

  • In a way yes, as a shy person (and I think I'm talking for a lot of shy people) I don't care to much what people think of me. The thing that gives me trouble when talking is the fear of offending them. You can call me overly sensitive, but I care a lot about other peoples feelings, but since I rarly know what to say I just shut-up. That's shyness from my point of veiw.

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  • @Shaytarder He's probably a narcissist himself, look at his body language.

  • @VieraLuck Also, introverted or shy people tend to be empathetic because they DO CARE about what they say affects others. Narcissistic people on the other hand, DO NOT.

  • @VieraLuck No, shyness is NOT narcissism. I studied psychology, worked in a mental health centre, and write about these subjects often. Shy people are just born that way, just like if you're naturally an introvert or extrovert. Narcissists tend to have many friends, are dramatic, and outgoing. This is just the way people are.  Some are introverts and/or shy, and some are not, and then you have extroverts and the more extreme forms of narcissism. There is NOTHING wrong with being shy.

  • This guy is wrong. Narcissists actually tend to have lots of friends and they are usually outgoing and dramatic people. Sorry, you can't change an introvert into an extrovert, that's just how some people are born. And there is nothing wrong with being an introvert or shy; many composers, artists, and writers, and scientists to boot, were introverted or shy types. Stop trying to change everyone into the same mold, we don't want to be the same.

  • ..so what is his book called?

  • If you go out n do something out of the box.. Something that you usually wouldn't do,,, that's really embarasing for u n do it over the course of months then u will slowly become more outgoing

  • When u rock up to a party... Don't think ohhh is my hair ok.. don't think at all.. Just engage n talk. And while your talking to ppl.. Don't think ohhh am I boring her n so on.

  • Nice :)

  • This guy makes Dr. Phil look like Freud.

  • I like led zepplin the band.

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