Is an Internet Relationship Cheating? by LuvemOrLeavem

Can a relationship be cheating if there isn't any contact? LuvemOrLeavem explains how your internet relationship can affect your real life relationships. For more help with love visit http://www.luvemorleavem.com/read.cfm

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• relationship advice
• cheating
• relationship problems
• internet relationship
• internet friendship

[MrTroy4148]

My spouse is texting another man 40 to 60 times a day. Sending pictures, too. I have told her, "him or me" many times and the texting stops for a day or two, then it's right back to a large number every day. They even talk on the phone for hours. She claims it's nothing. That she's not doing anything wrong. It's eating me up. Any advice. I guess it's time to "man up" and get the hell out.

[brismike65]

@irkofan yes but you are open minded you leave people to decide and don't tell others what to do. Can I say again I am sorry to hear about what happened to you. That was something that was not fair.

[irkofan]

@brismike65 I am pro open relationships an monogamy as well. I believe that relationships are as varied as the persons participating in them. It's always refreshing to hear someone who's opinion isn't completely biased. : )

[brismike65]

@irkofan I 100% agree with you irkofan, the fact that they choose another through this channel is appalling so I am sorry you experienced such a situation. I'm still pro open relationships which is different to cheating to me, as I am pro monogamy, but the real issue to me is, the partner must bring this issues up and to me from talking to others they don't and the allure of an online romance or flirting becomes exciting and replaces the real relationship. Sadly, this experience will occur more

[irkofan]

@brismike65 I can tell you that you're right on some counts. It's up to the couple to decide. From the point of view of someone who actually lost a 10 year relationship to this, I can tell you that it hurts just as much as physical infidelity, if not more. Your partner, for a long time, might continue to tell you that they love you, but they stay up all night and never touch you or talk to you, in lieu of this mysterious figure online. I felt helpless, alone, and foolish. Then, she was just gone

[brismike65]

I sometimes think that people take this all a bit serious, it is cheating only in the eyes of the couple, or not cheating, to me it is good to discuss it but online cheating, no such thing, just my view, I would be more concerned about the amount of time rather than the physical contact issue the partner was doing

[misterpantybuns]

Hmmm... I'd love your opinion on whether I'm guilty of internet cheating or not. I am flirtatious and have a blog at full-brief-panties.blogspot, and my YouTube channel. What do you think?

[MissStayOut88]

ya :( it is cheating i just kicked my boyfriend for that he had one with a girl he knew on msn and then i find out 2 times and everytime he told me he would stop talking to her but he didnt and this time its the 3 time and i cant take it its been 2 year we are together we were talking about having kids ans stuff i think that if its a serious relation and you love the persone you should maybe not break up but i least kick him out for a long time 8(

silly me i already miss him

[PlanetAbiola]

Great Tina!