@blaquelovely1 I ALSO DONT HAVE TO JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER BECAUSE I BEEN WITH BLACK WOMEN BEFORE AND ALL THEY LOOK FOR IS WHAT A MAN CAN GIVE TO THEM AND HOW CAN HE TAKE CARE OF HER AND WHAT CAN SHE GET FROM HIM.MOST BLACK WOMEN DON'T WORK WITH A BLACK MAN TO HAVE MORE.ALL THEY THINK ABOUT IS THEMSELVES.BLACK WOMEN NEED TO GIVE MORE UNDERSTANDING TO THE BLACK MAN THAT IS TRYING AND BE HIS HELPER AS GOD MADE HER TO BE IN LIFE WITH HIM THEN NOT.MY LATINA WIFE IS A HELPER AND GIVE TO ME HER ALL.
@blaquelovely1 THIS SHOW ME ALREADY THAT YOU ARE ONE OF THEM BLACK WOMEN JUST BY WHAT YOU WRITE HERE.THAT'S WHY I KEPT IT SHORT AND 2 THE POINT.SO LET ME SAY IT THIS WAY 2 YOU.GO LOOK INTO THE MIRROR AND YOU WILL SEE THE ANSWER TO WHAT YOU ASKING ME ABOUT WHY THEY ARE MEAN.IM NOT A BITTER MAN AT ALL BECAUSE IM NOT MARRIED 2 A BLACK WOMAN ANY MORE.I HAVE A BEAUTIFUL LATINA WIFE THAT LOVE ME WITH HER HEART,WE ARE BOTH INTO THE WORD OF GOD AND LOVE THE LORD WITH ALL OUR HEARTS.I AM A VERY HAPPY MAN
@DRUMMERAL100 You didn't explain anything. You can't claim that BW are one way just like I couldn't claim that you are this or that and nothing else. It just seems to me that you are a bitter person. Am I correct or incorrect in my assessment? I'm figuring you would say no. You can't judge a book by it's cover. You don't have to justify wanting a woman who isn't Black by saying that BW are mean. I don't think BW are losing anything.
@vanityrose12 I don't think anyone should settle for someone else just because they're there. Please tell me that you don't want a desperate woman? I find men hilarious who can be just as shallow if not more than the women they complain about. FYI: BW only care when you're bashing them. Some may care, but most don't that you're with a woman from another race.
Ladies its simple wake up, figure out what you want PAST the physical and be realistic about your own problems. Money comes and goes and the body detriorates. If he is respectful to his family, his friends, and to strangers. Works hard at whatever he is profitable at and values the same things you do (again outside of the materialistic) then give him a chance. You can change swag/outer appearance if its missing you CAN NOT change anyones mind, heart, or soul.
This is some post...as for me, I am a young black female in my early 30's with no kids, a career, and currently pursuing my doctoral degree. I am blessed and have worked hard to become independent. However, being a single black female who WANTS to get married and have a relationship with a good black man has been white challenging. I worked hard to get where I am today and I am a responsible woman who deserves a decent, educated black man to compliment me. Problem is...where are they? The men I
The media have made this a talking point and this still runs the same theme of the willie lynch scenario - we play our role so well. Unplug and learn to love each other
@blaquelovely1 I ALSO DONT HAVE TO JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER BECAUSE I BEEN WITH BLACK WOMEN BEFORE AND ALL THEY LOOK FOR IS WHAT A MAN CAN GIVE TO THEM AND HOW CAN HE TAKE CARE OF HER AND WHAT CAN SHE GET FROM HIM.MOST BLACK WOMEN DON'T WORK WITH A BLACK MAN TO HAVE MORE.ALL THEY THINK ABOUT IS THEMSELVES.BLACK WOMEN NEED TO GIVE MORE UNDERSTANDING TO THE BLACK MAN THAT IS TRYING AND BE HIS HELPER AS GOD MADE HER TO BE IN LIFE WITH HIM THEN NOT.MY LATINA WIFE IS A HELPER AND GIVE TO ME HER ALL.
DRUMMERAL100 1 day ago
@blaquelovely1 THIS SHOW ME ALREADY THAT YOU ARE ONE OF THEM BLACK WOMEN JUST BY WHAT YOU WRITE HERE.THAT'S WHY I KEPT IT SHORT AND 2 THE POINT.SO LET ME SAY IT THIS WAY 2 YOU.GO LOOK INTO THE MIRROR AND YOU WILL SEE THE ANSWER TO WHAT YOU ASKING ME ABOUT WHY THEY ARE MEAN.IM NOT A BITTER MAN AT ALL BECAUSE IM NOT MARRIED 2 A BLACK WOMAN ANY MORE.I HAVE A BEAUTIFUL LATINA WIFE THAT LOVE ME WITH HER HEART,WE ARE BOTH INTO THE WORD OF GOD AND LOVE THE LORD WITH ALL OUR HEARTS.I AM A VERY HAPPY MAN
DRUMMERAL100 1 day ago
@DRUMMERAL100 You didn't explain anything. You can't claim that BW are one way just like I couldn't claim that you are this or that and nothing else. It just seems to me that you are a bitter person. Am I correct or incorrect in my assessment? I'm figuring you would say no. You can't judge a book by it's cover. You don't have to justify wanting a woman who isn't Black by saying that BW are mean. I don't think BW are losing anything.
blaquelovely1 1 day ago
@blaquelovely1 LET ME PUT IT THIS WAY TO YOU ABOUT THEM BEING MEAN. THEY JUST THE WAY THEY ARE. I HOPE YOU UNDERSTAND THAT ONE.
DRUMMERAL100 2 days ago
@vanityrose12 I don't think anyone should settle for someone else just because they're there. Please tell me that you don't want a desperate woman? I find men hilarious who can be just as shallow if not more than the women they complain about. FYI: BW only care when you're bashing them. Some may care, but most don't that you're with a woman from another race.
blaquelovely1 2 days ago
@DRUMMERAL100 How are BW mean to BM?
blaquelovely1 2 days ago
Ladies its simple wake up, figure out what you want PAST the physical and be realistic about your own problems. Money comes and goes and the body detriorates. If he is respectful to his family, his friends, and to strangers. Works hard at whatever he is profitable at and values the same things you do (again outside of the materialistic) then give him a chance. You can change swag/outer appearance if its missing you CAN NOT change anyones mind, heart, or soul.
nellenel15 5 days ago
Correction: "quite" not white
Labrish2000 2 weeks ago
This is some post...as for me, I am a young black female in my early 30's with no kids, a career, and currently pursuing my doctoral degree. I am blessed and have worked hard to become independent. However, being a single black female who WANTS to get married and have a relationship with a good black man has been white challenging. I worked hard to get where I am today and I am a responsible woman who deserves a decent, educated black man to compliment me. Problem is...where are they? The men I
Labrish2000 2 weeks ago
The media have made this a talking point and this still runs the same theme of the willie lynch scenario - we play our role so well. Unplug and learn to love each other
Tygabone 4 weeks ago