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I say to you Robert, I don't hold you up as a God I see you as what you are, a healing force in a world that is hungry for healing even if some don't realize it yet.Thanks for being an inspirational force for change and the betterment of one self and the world.One sand grain makes the entire beach.
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I have been watching these videos and they helped me alot but realised that is is still a big wall in my way
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I actually do not belive that I deverse to be happy. I realised that yesterday. Tha t the closer I get to happiness and away from my angst, they stronger is the feeling that happiness is just NOT FOR ME. It is really strange, I have been sabotaging myself for so long
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i just hope i heal soon. it takes months to years.
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@gigiontube hope things will get better in your life. :)
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I understand what you are saying. Still is hard to distance emotionally from people who normally should love and support you the most. If you don't have that from your own mother you miss a lot in life, and this is so sad. You feel like an orphan. And not only that, but while trying to cope with the situation, to tap out of it, more salt is poured on the wounds with every occasion. This is very hard to take.
Hope Robert will comment on this.
Thanks for posting.
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@gigiontube you gotta create EMOTIONAL distance as well as distance in other ways WITHOUT confronting your parent. Because I think you must have confronted your parent and that person has still not changed. That is the best advice I can give you. think of it this way--if the sky is blue and you do not like the color blue and still have to walk under the sky then walk but stop staring up above. Just accept the fact that it could not have been another color. You get what I mean. :)) stay well.
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Please Robert,
What is your advice when a parent abused you in the past but continue to abuse you in present as well, on every occasion possible? Yes, you tap to release the bad emotions of the past, but what about the new ones created again and again ?
Would you recommend to stay away from that parent for the rest of the life? Obviously the parent does not see or recognize his abuse, and won't try the "silly" EFT for nothing in the world.
Thanks for your time. I love all your videos.
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@AVLUCKY Thank you :-)) I know i should be totally OK now and I am working on it but it;s such a slow process so I don;t want to lie to myslef, there are still things I have to work on, the guilt, the fear, the loneliness...lets say I am OK as much as i can be... and progressing. I know there will soon come the day when I will stand in the front of the mirror and will say to myslef: "You are OK, you are great!" Love :-)
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@BytomGirl Change the above from I am going to be OK to I AM OK ... You too are a good person! Be kind to yourself x
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@AVLUCKY Yes, only for that situation...it's just hard after 30 years with one person to forget completely but I am trying and will be OK :-) Have a wonderful life to and I know you probably already do because you are a good person :-)
I did a form of EFT without realising it, I forgave my first wife for everything she did to me before our divorce, it was either that, I said to myself, or the stomach pains will get worse, I had never heard of EFT 4 years ago, my mind told me to let go, it just wasn't worth it, so I did....Tapping helps me now in different ways, helps me to relax, to accept things that for me were in the past unacceptable.
Try it, and believe in yourself that you and only you can heal a lot of issues.
manutdman1957 1 year ago
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Very good! At least we have an organized way of doing it! Peace Robert
HealingMagic 1 year ago
Im falling in love with this man.
subbtopp 2 years ago 3
You have such great taste!!
HealingMagic 2 years ago 5
what happens when that experience, is like an old coat that you have worn for ever... and you dont know if you want to let it go.. because it makes you safe to stay in the fear eg your fear protects you from more hurt based on the past ????
person81243 2 years ago
That belief is a lie and it only helps you to re-experience the fear you say you don't want and yet complain that you keep repeating it. It is a sick belief but some like the sickness and its false security.
The new coat looks better on you anyway and the other one is too small for you! Your smile is bigger and you look silly wearing it. Peace
HealingMagic 2 years ago