Gender Questioning

A Vid about me and my confusion!

Category:

People & Blogs

Tags:

• Gender
• questioning
• queer
• binder
• ftm
• Androgyne
• Intergender
• Third
• gender
• Gender-fluid

[BeckTheDeck]

Nice video. I'm confused myself. :(

I totally understand you.

By the way, that binder looks mighty comfortably. Where did you get it?

[Elphie3green]

HEy thanks :) yeah the Binder is from T kingdom I think it's the 980 model but ive also bought a shorter one from there the 1300 model because the long t shirt part does get a bit hot during summer ! :) xxxx

[bananaers1]

OMG I feel the same way! Born female, but wanted to look male and be accepted as such and will always feel more comfortable in male clothing! Yay for not being the only one who feels this way.

[tobyr3]

That was a great production. Good luck in your journey.

[Kythlo]

Well I don't know how much help I can be but I'm sort of going through the same thing. I just don't worry about it most of the time. PS I think your really good looking :)

[orlando098]

So if more people could be happy with themselves and accepted by society as having an intergendered identity/expression, that would be cool - unless of course they feel they need to do the whole TS transition thing

[orlando098]

Good video. I thought you were a guy from the first pics. You seem nice-looking to me whichever sex/gender you are. Hope you find a place where you feel comfortable - including if that is being FTM or an androgyne. It would be nice if more people talked about non-binary gender variance - ie being somewhere in-between man or woman as usually defined by society. Transitioning to live as the "opposite" gender from the one associated with your sex is expensive, complicated, not always satisfactory.

[BeckyBoiGrrl]

Loved your video. Excellent work with a brilliant soundtrack. I share your confusion too. Despite transitioning and living as an MTF for eleven years, I find my gender is somewhere in the 'grey area' in-between.

[BeckTheDeck]

Awesome. Yea, I think I had my heart set on model 980. I'll try that one. Thanks. :3

[Kontikigirl82]

wow, great video! I don't think it's u that is confused, i think it's our society that's confused! I'm queer identified and i am comfortable with my femaleness, but three of my best friends are genderqueer and I have been there to see a lot of their questioning gender. I think you are really brave and awesome for putting yourself out there like this! If you need a friend, find me on myspace if you're on it (my name is "Smilely")