How do we stay committed to our personal growth and still be in a long-term intimate relationship with another?
Once we are past the romantic phase of relationship, each couple needs to learn tools that help maintain growth and aliveness.
Intimacy training inspires and evokes each person to move through limited patterns that inhibit the natural flow of authentic communication and loving communion. Change and growth come from challenging our delusions and working with our emotionally young parts that are hidden behind defenses. To break through fears of intimacy, either/or thinking, blame, past resentments that block aliveness takes a deep commitment and desire to live in the present with no illusions or masks; to live in the moment accepting all of life as it is brought to us.
Through commitment each person takes responsibility for his or her part in the cause for the breakdown of the relationship. To surrender to another with vulnerability and openness and at the same time create boundaries and maintain individuality takes practice, patience and attention. Learn to understand the roots of patterns that can lead to separation and divorce through conscious relationship training. Recommended Books: Shadow Side of Intimate Relationships; Doug and Naomi Moseley; Journey to the Heart: John Welwood. For more information go to www.MartaLuzim.com
this is because we know only sex, we have to discover LOVE
TimeEinstein 1 year ago
Good questions but what's the answer?
jx14aby 2 years ago