Narcissist's Sadistic Inner Judge

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The narcissist is besieged and tormented by a sadistic Superego which sits in constant judgement. It is an amalgamation of negative evaluations, criticisms, angry or disappointed voices, and disparagement meted out in the narcissist's formative years and adolescence by parents, peers, role models, and authority figures. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase the print book, or 16 e-books, or 2 DVDs with 12 hours of video lectures on narcissists, psychopaths, and abuse in relationships: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/thebook.html)

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[jrehm1967]

My wife is a narcissist and I am going through hell!!! Thank you for your videos!

[WSD1952]

I have had a close friend for many years and, until seeing your videos, I never understood that I'm dealing with a narcissist (probably covert). Thank you for helping me understand this condition.

[Saraswati0183]

Thank you, Sam. My ex-husband (we were married 10 years) is a classic narcissist. It helps me a lot, to know that he is feeling all the hell which he isolated me into. It feels like everything is fair, now. I'm still wondering what made him this way. I do know his parents were manipulative control freaks over him. Also, that he had abandonment issues with his mother--both from birth, and also because she went to the hospital for weeks at a time starting when he was age 4. 

[cybermone]

what about compliance bias? like the ham sandwhich that looks like the virgin mary........

[Hawaiiansky11]

SAM - What creates Narcissism? I've read that it can be either abuse or overindulgence (like buying lots of gifts for daddy's little princess b/c daddy works too much?) - living in a household where one parent abuse another / each other? Divorced parents (which has been disputed - usually divorced parents means a toxic environment before the divorce, and magnified during - which is not much worse than two toxic parents staying together and being subject to it regularly....your thoughts??

[Hawaiiansky11]

@jrehm1967 - Tons more stuff out there - Check out men who are abused dot com, shrink 4 men dot com, heart 2 heart dot ca, Paul Elam...

[DropDeadCouture]

what would a narcissist do if they sat through your videos about them, which are so true.