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How to avoid getting stuck as JUST FRIENDS with a girl you like

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Uploaded by on Nov 16, 2009

christian dating advice for guys who dont want to get stuck at the friendship zone.

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  • what qualities did you see in your wife that made you want to approach/pursue her?

  • @Therawfoodie she loves God, has a commitment to living right and pleasing God in all she does and wants to help others fulfil their God given potential and she is beautiful. I knew that if she loved and was comitted to God then she would love and be comitted to me.

  • @Tips4ChristianDating That is indeed beautifull, but how did you know that if she loved and was commited to God, she would love and be commited to you?

  • @zairekrieger because a truly God fearing woman will live by the word of God and the word of God says to honour and submit to your husband. With honour and submission comes love and respect.

  • @Tips4ChristianDating Yes, I know that atruly Godfearing woman would submit to her husband, but the question is, why did you want her to be your wife? Because there are alot of God-feaing woman out there, ya know what I mean? God Bless

  • @zairekrieger I wanted her to be my wife because I loved her (and still do) and I believed in my heart that she is the person God wanted me to be with. Plus there were other things that happened in our courtship that I cant really go into that made me realize that she was definitely the one.

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  • This is good advice. I wish all guys could hear this :)

  • hi paul cld u do a video on advice for a christian girl not to get stuck in the friend zone with a christian guy she likes seeing that you are a male lol u wld know

    may god continue to bless you and your wife

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  • Okay, now i'm confused! I met this girl on a datingsite. We dedcided to meet up, and we had a great time! We sat talking for 5 hours in a cafe, with no akward moments what so ever! On our way to the trainstation it rained, and I had brought my umbrella, so we kinda walked close together... NICE! When she went on her way I gave her my umbrella, and said that I would like to see her again, and she agreed... 2 days later, she doesn't answer my messages :S

  • Do you think showing persistence to my ex would help? I really care about her and want to see her become a good Christian...I still think there's a chance, and I want to help her become one, because I need a Christian girl. She feels attracted to guys that make her feel protected, to guys that she feels she can trust, to guys that won't hurt her. I've said things about her in anger but she still made an effort to be bestfriends with me. Do you think there's any chance, or do I give up now?

  • how did you grow your friendship??? did you hang out together in big groups/groups of friends??? thanks , awesome advice!!!

  • Great tips!!! Will pass along. Yes, it's crucial for a guy to be up front. Keeping in mind it may seem awkward for a guy to approach a young lady that way but she'll appreciate it. Persistence is key. Young women are taught all of the negative stuff about guys b4 the positive. Whether she has a father or father figure and they play a part in her life, she has been forewarned about how guys can be. It's like a dance. The guy takes the lead and shows his intent.

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