Should You Live with Your Boyfriend? VC2

Ariel, a young woman living in Los Angeles, gets advice from her two best friends about whether or not she should move in with her boyfriend.

For the male perspective, check out this pod: http://current.com/items/90217102_should-you-live-with-your-girlfriend.htm

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[Radude88]

Get A Dog!

[makefunnyfacesbitch]

I think it all leads back to if you're a dependent person or independent person. Andrea seems independent, so she likes her space. Sarah seems dependent, so it seems like she somewhat needs her boyfriend to feel good at the end of the day.

[honeyhued08]

@coolbeens21 My only goal isn't marriage bc I am and have already been that.. BTW, I'd rather any day to be "the most expensive type hooker" then a whore, and if the only reason you'd get married is for the stigma why do it at all? Because you tire of being a whore.. stay a whore, you seem fixated on it. You will not receive another comment from me.. you're filthy and unworthy.

[honeyhued08]

@coolbeens21 O.k. then you shall be a whore, and ppl who are married dont get paid, but then.. you'll never know bc you want to remain a whore. Take care whore!

[coolbeens21]

@honeyhued08

the only reason id get married is social stigma,

its not important to me.

you and i arguing back and forth achieves nothing.

its very important you to.. not so much to me..

I dont need to be married to feel happy or fullfilled. I dont feel the importance of it.

if that makes me a whore, so be it.

by the way " hookers get paid" you got paid for (marriage) so that makes you the most expensive type of hooker

a wife.

good day.. enjoy your contract love.

[honeyhued08]

@coolbeens21 We know you are not a hooker, hookers get paid! Whores give it up with no obligation or conscience, Women get married.

[honeyhued08]

@coolbeens21 You are so confused you can't MAKE A MAN put a ring on your hand. lol! Believe me, you can't! A man does it for one reason and one reason only bc he loves the woman! And most of the time THE MAN leaves not the woman! And the woman accepts bc she loves the man and wants to be with him forever, not temporarily as with couples who "come and go as they please" Love is not proven sweety, it's cultivated then cemented.

[coolbeens21]

@honeyhue08

*proven that their love (sorry was typing so super fast there and wasnt thinking lol )

[honeyhued08]

@coolbeens21 If you love a person, you wouldn't mind the obligation sweety! And foreal, if a man LOVES you.. he would love for you to be his obligation. That's why most of the men who commented are saying girls are stupid, because GIRLS are.. WOMEN aren't!

[coolbeens21]

@honeyhued08

dont you see also that SHE has no obligation either?

she has the option to change her mind and leave if it doesnt work out..

thats what life is about, I love having my freedom and options to change my mind.. I dont need a man to stay with me so badly that I need him to slap a ring on my finger..

either of us can leave if it doesnt work out.. and staying together implies we are both happy together.. which is an even bigger commitment because theres no paper keeping us together

[coolbeens21]

@honeyhued08

You look down on women living with their bfs as whores. so what?  you are entitled to your views..

you still haven't proved that there love is any less important than married people.

[honeyhued08]

@coolbeens21 And as said before Matt has no problem with it! He loves it.. he has done it before as most ppl have that keep doing it, going from person to person.. Read STATS, most ppl that live together before marriage end in divorce. You hit the nail on the head when you said NO OBLIGATION, how true it is! Being a man in this day and age must be BLISS, which is why most women won't ever be married, going and living with person to person.