Have you ever worried about how much time your other half surfs the net? Do you really know what sites they go on? if this is the case then maybe this video applies to you. Sarah Kent went undercover to reveal the truth about sites such as Facebook & My space, are they the silent marriage breaker?
but as some people preffer to stay monogumus others dont. and if hearts are being broken and familys torn apart. the fact still remains people should know what there doing. personally i cant stand cheating and i know a few who do do it. they never remain freinds for very long.
bobski1976 2 years ago
yeah but common scence should kick in and it does take two to tango as they say.
im intrested to know did you expressly during your coversations tell these people you where married and not intrested apart from it being displayed on your profile.
bobski1976 2 years ago
yep, and I have been temped too and turned it down so i understand where you are coming from, to each there own is right I honestly dont like to judge people who are swingers i have had friends who like to thats what kept them happy so whatever
myemeraldmind 2 years ago
I agree. I've been tempted and turned it down. I asked myself do I really want to rip a family apart for a simple night of lust?! This doesn't mean I'm against people having extra marital sex. If you have strong sexual urges then we should in this day and age be open and honest. We should rid ourselves of the old Victorian values of sex and marriage. What's good about the internet, is that married couples can now meet with up with like minded people.
DrMontague 2 years ago
people just need to think twice before they do take the risk its that simple
myemeraldmind 2 years ago
Because if you are the type of person who can be be tempted then you are going to be tempted. It as silly as saying some one 'if you go to work tomorrow then don't be tempted to have an affair with a colleague because you might regret it! Any one who has an affair knows they are taking a risk regardless of how they meet.
DrMontague 2 years ago
anyone can be tempted we are human whats wrong with asking people to watch what they do? or what they say? whats wrong with wanting people to be safe and honest with their partners? there is nothing wrong with wanting to help people. they dont have to listen they can make there own choices. this is just to help people to be aware. no body is forcing opinions
myemeraldmind 2 years ago
To tell people to be careful not to be tempted when they go on social net workings to me sounds ludicrous because we are talking about adults who are considered responsible for their own actions. It does not matter what advice others might give. If you are the type of person who can be tempted then you are going to be be tempted!
DrMontague 2 years ago
okay lol good im glad we agree on something, and why not easier i think it does because writing things are easier then talking to someone in person and you can lie easily over the internet lol i am sure alot of people do that
myemeraldmind 2 years ago
Comment boxes are difficult place to discuss things because we try to condense things down, therefore we don't get our message across clearly. However I don't agree that the internet makes it easier to be tempted, it is simply another way of being tempted. If you going to being tempted by a person online then it would be highly likely that you would be tempted at work, the pub, a night club, a girls night out , blokes night out etc.
DrMontague 2 years ago