How To Be Attractive To Women By Being A Leader

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Being able to lead and be confident in the process is one of the key elements of attracting women.

I believe it creates attraction subtly and consistently because it mirrors sexual behavior amongst other aspects and it's a good indicator of how good a man could be as a lover.

Of course being able to lead is also desirable for a man that would be a woman's long term partner or father of her children so that element of attraction should not be underestimated.

The metaphor for leading to attract women that is mentioned in this video is in fact one of the easiest to follow examples I can think of and maybe you've come across it somewhere else on line. Follow it and notice how women react differently. If you're currently not confident about leading with a woman you like and if you feel that you easily "lose yourself" when you're with a beautiful girl you like then you might need to persist to really "get" how to implement this attraction strategy in your life. But this is an important element of attraction that a man needs to be able to master in my opinion.

It's also a lot more fun to feel confident and in control rather than submissive and weak, don't you think?

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[animefreak619240]

So does that mean if I'm leading and not trying to be submissive, I shouldn't ALSWYS ask her opinion?

I tend to ask girls for their opinions before I do something to make sure it's ok. Is it ok to always ask their opinion? Now I don't mean I don't have balls or what.. I'm just saying I'm trying to be considerate. Should I continue to do so or what should I change?

[stephanerdman]

@animefreak619240 Ok. Stephan here. Sorry for not seeing this earlier. Just been launching my new Approach At Will Ebook. Here's the thing: ALWAYS asking for her opinion before you do anything? I would advise against. Don't "TRY to be considerate". Assume leadership while listening if she's against sth. Get comfortable making decisions & ask her to join you.Have a clear preference. I am not saying "never asking for her opinion" but in general do your best to make decisions. Trust me on this one.

[nickybev]

im a leader most of my relationships, but I still take crap from her. My excuse is that I love her too much, but deep down I think its a problem. Wt should i do??

[stephanerdman]

@nickybev Hi, it's Stephan here. Listen...I can't tell you what to do. I can only tell you in my experience being clear about your boundaries and having your own confidence in tact are more attractive to women in general...even if it seems like they test your resolve. S.

[mistervova11]

damn girls are weird and difficult

[JonJon3794]

Hey stephen can you do an episode on cock teasers ? It is a HUGE problem. (Thumb up if you agree, so he can see this)

[Monaatti]

@greatfull11 Yeah, the "male leads, female submits" stuff works in cases many enough to make it worth the video, but there are basically two conditions where it goes wrong: 1) the woman doesn't want to be submissive 2) the man doesn't want to dominate, even with the cost of no relationship. Luckily the two cases balance each other, though they might not make up groups of equal sizes.

[LW89music]

'and you know you really quite like your, you know, your....hip hop.'

Stephan cant figure out why anybody would like hip hop hahahaha

[Mooktopia]

This is great. This course has really helped my be more confident. Before i started i used to stare at women from a distance and never approach them. Now after the course when i see a women i like i approach them confidently and assuredly from behind and take them. I take them because i want them and i am a leader.

[caselorance]

Stephan, I can identify with your example of being in the car very easily because that is a place where we are at odds a majority of the time. It manifests itself there because I have a feeling the need for leadership or "control" is so imperative. She gives me crap all the time, which is something you alluded to. Where she is aggravated I am patient, thus relinquishing control. I am tired of her giving me crap, and need some method of handling that. I don't want to be an asshole.

[iAREanthonyyy]

super good analogy

[xXXrayzerXXx]

respect to this dude

[rofltroll656]

Whenever my girl doesn't listen to me, I pull a Chris Brown on her!!

[jpr422]

@greatfull11 I agree with you completely. Many women feel that they are being dominated and their opinions and feelings don't matter. This leadership crap is complete bullshit!

[greatfull11]

May I please please notice that this 'being the leader' stuff really doesn't work for all woman? Personally I find it highly irritating. You should treat each other like equals