Santoria's top 10 turn offs with guys

I invited Santoria Bell who is the women's minister at P4CM to my blog to break down the top 10 things guys do to turn her off. She hit off some really good stuff, check it out.

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[NicheDiva]

"You have no confidence in God, or the authority he has given you... our marriage will be powerless because I'm running it and everything will be out of order...then we'll have the "garden" all over again". What?! Such a word. She betta preach!!!

[neosaberleo]

I know you made this comment like a month ago, but I need to reply to this.

The point of the video is not to look to a woman to figure out how to be a steadfast man of God, the point of the video is one thing: Trust God, follow God, submit to God completely, and you will be fully prepared for a proper, stable, and God-ordained relationship that will stand because your foundation is God.

Hope this helps.

[levimichal]

Submission is key in the life of a Christian. Yet men and women there is a difference men submit to Jesus Christ and leadership in their local body if theu are younger this includes their father. Women are to submit to her father and Christ up until the point she gets married then she is to submit to her husband. I.e. Ephesians, Colossians (maybe), 1 Corinthians 14 they mention something similar.

[7KEDDY7]

AMEN SISTA! :) GOD BLESS YOU BOTH*

[bmpoet]

@illholla84 It's not necessarily that a virtuous woman is trying to be manipulative. Sometimes when a woman has natural leadership or is more of a loud/independent type she can slip into manipulating mode without even realizing it. A woman who knows that she struggles with this knows she can't have a man who can be easily manipulated: it's a form of temptation. Part of being a virtuous woman isn't not struggling with sin and such, but being able to know boundaries and staying within them.

[aaliyahbr3]

8:36 "As the woman, our job is to follow and submit completely..submit to him like we do to the Lord." I'm struggling with this, no lie. I understand the importance of submitting to your leadership, being held accountable & edified by the authority above you. (pastor, bishop, mentor, etc.) But it's harder for me to imagine why within a partnership/marriage, women have to submit to the men as our authority. 1 Peter 5:5 talks about mutual submission. Could this also apply in marriage? God bless. ♥

[illholla84]

@NicheDiva but why would a virtuous woman being trying to manipulate somebody....?

[corazoncito77]

She's really good at explaining things. Please do a blog Santoria ! I live in Europe and your advice is great... Use the the good side of internet pleaaase :)

[relinquishedwill]

All them words may be good and true but still will you move for anything other than money? Not you 2 personally, ...... the viewers.

[BSlady85]

Preach that

[MsTNGC]

Great video! This list not only helps me know what to avoid concerning men and relationships but it completely raises the standard for me as a woman of God. Very inspiring!

[snuggliciousforever]

Hello judging by the date and time stamp on this post I'm mad late but if it hasn't already been put in place I was wondering if Santoria could start a blog as well. After watching the "10 things" lists i realize just how weak my spiritual life is and that I have soooo far to go and I think i would benefit greatly from her ministry. I hail from Philadelphia Pa so needless to say I won't be in Cali area any time soon. Is this something you all/ he would be willing to do?