Princess Boy

KandieeCurls request for a response to this interesting subject
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8DnbjtXDlv0

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• princess boy
• transgender
• boys that want to be girls

[maximuslyricus]

@curlmebella telling him that I don't like him dressed like that and taking him into my arms and smothering him with a big ole kiss. Shoot, I love my son more than I love myself, and I'm sure most parents feel the same way

[curlmebella]

@maximuslyricus I know and u sound like a great parent.I have open communication with my son as well and I think you are absolutely correct that having that bond really helps to aid the kids against peer pressures.I am not judging your parenting or anyone elses who does what they feel is appropriate.I am the last person to tell someone how they should parent. I was just expressing my personal admiration for these parents who acknowledged an issue w/their child head on and showed acceptance

[maximuslyricus]

for me to address cause some people have paralysis, blindness, brain tumors. Yet the fact is, if I failed to remove that splinter, it cud poison my entire system and cause my death. Finally, I do agree that our children are gifts from God. I believe that it is because of this that we should strive to raise our kids according to our understanding of God's will. We can certainly teach our children to love the sinner, but to hate the sin.

[curlmebella]

@maximuslyricus and u know whats kinda funny. prostitutes, criminals and dregs of society were jesus's running buddies, wonder what he would do?

[maximuslyricus]

possible, and fine to accept a person, and yet not accept that person's actions. I do understand that parents are dealing with really grave issues concerning their kids, like birth defects, etc. But I don't believe that this is justification for the attitude that cross dressing by little kids is too small an issue to be of concern to the kids parents. An example wud be if I had a splinter in my toe. I cud say, well this issue is too small

[curlmebella]

@maximuslyricus Im not saying it shouldnt be a concern. Believe me if my son came to me with this it would not be my favorite day, all Im saying is that once its there I have a choice to acknowledge it or deny it and I believe denying it would be too damaging to my child.

[taibeach]

He should like whatever his little heart desired without being riduculed at the age of 4. i mean come on. Yea, I know he'll get teased by his friends in a couple of years but my plan, when that time comes, tell him you like whatever the hell you want to like and don't worry about what other think. Bravo to those parents. Thanks for the vid. It really help me see a more clear answer to my situation. :) u rock Curlmebella!

[taibeach]

i know I'm so late on responding but concerning my 4 yr old this is just on time. My son loves the color pink, likes princesses and cars. I say whatever, he's 4 yrs old. But I recieve these side remarks from others who gives the "look" at me and my husband as if he's gay. First off if that was the case, I'm gonna love him the same no matter what. That doesn't bother me. What does bother me is these ignorate people do. I stopped telling him he should like a boy color or not like princesses.

[MrsRaena]

Well said.

[LandOPhile]

I don't think it's anybody's business if your child wants to wear a dress at home or in public. It seems like the parents love their child very much and just want him to learn to love himself at an early age. I would not want my child on the tv shows, just because people are so crazy, but writing a book about it seems a bit unnecessary. I know there are plenty of other things this country could be concerned with besides "boys who wear dresses."

[wagechi29]

you are so cool Bella! NG channel is great!

[maximuslyricus]

@curlmebella rampant cursing in middle school to our love and acceptance of one of our favorite uncles in spite of his homosexuality. Based on my experience, I believe that a boy whose parents try to re-direct his desire to cross dress will be ok as long as the parents deal with him lovingly and under the parameters that they accept him as their son whether he cross dresses or not. I know that if I walked in on my son while he was cross dressed, I would have no problem simultaneously

[maximuslyricus]

@curlmebella and why, but I make it clear to him that as he ages, he will have his own beliefs and that he should know that I do and will always love and accept him no matter what he believes or what decisions he makes regarding his life. And that he can throw anything at his dad and me without fear of rejection nor reprisal. So far, dealing with my son in this manner has helped him to share all kinds of dilemmas with us, from how he's handled being offered cigarettes and the

[maximuslyricus]

@curlmebella family knowing she was pregnant. She didn't even know where babies came from. And yes, she had had sex with a boy her own age voluntarily. At any rate, if we could survive our parents shortcomings, so can our kids survive ours. Also, even parents who are firm in what they believe tend to be much more open with and accepting of their kids in this day and time. I regularly let my son know what I believe