and YES, WHEN HE LEAVES you can just check the room, but i'm talking about SPYING when he's IN the room! don't spy, but maybe if you were in the OTHER room and you smelled pot,THEN you can just barge in and say "oh.. i thought i smelled pot (IN THE OTHER ROOM) or something so i just wanted to check on you"
it isn't a privaledge, yur naturally born with a sense of privacy, and there's been MANY kids who are now in therapy for feeling violated there whole life.
and i'm not talking about CHILDREN, because the part of the brain that gives a sense of privacy hasn't devloped yet.
and about yur daughter: you should make sure you tell your daughter FIRST that there are bad people on the internet and if you talk to someone who looks fishy, stop talking to him immediatley! i guess it's ok to just, like, once a month tell your daughter that you want to check her myspace and ALL her messages, and let her KNOW what she is in for, because you can't permanently delete ALL her messages.
How about should I not knock on my kids door when I smell pot coming from it? Should I not search the room when he leaves? Should I just not care about my child and let them do whatever? Should i not be concerned enough about my daughter's internet habits to know that she, at 14, is talking to a 43 year old registered sex offender?
Privacy is not a given either. Trust and respect is earned, it is earned through actions. You say that give my kids space so let's put that in worst case scenario terms.
Should I leave the room when my child is playing, knowing there is a bottle of bleach in the room?
we kids SHOULDN'T be spied! parents always say "PRIVACY IS A PRIVILEGE"! that is BS! you don't "earn" privacy! EVERYONE has their own natural sense of privacy, and your kids REALLY feel violated when you are watching their every move! give them some SPACE, woman!
frickin liberals "oh no, don't spy, what message does that send? you want your kids to trust you and feel you trust them"
Kids are kids.. You can definately trust your kids to lie and hide things from you. And i want my kids to trust me to do everything in my power to watch over them. Even spying. I want them to KNOW that i am always watching, especially when they don't know i'm there. America with their liberals have gotten too far out of touch with parenting.
and YES, WHEN HE LEAVES you can just check the room, but i'm talking about SPYING when he's IN the room! don't spy, but maybe if you were in the OTHER room and you smelled pot,THEN you can just barge in and say "oh.. i thought i smelled pot (IN THE OTHER ROOM) or something so i just wanted to check on you"
chad5161 4 years ago
it isn't a privaledge, yur naturally born with a sense of privacy, and there's been MANY kids who are now in therapy for feeling violated there whole life.
and i'm not talking about CHILDREN, because the part of the brain that gives a sense of privacy hasn't devloped yet.
chad5161 4 years ago
and about yur daughter: you should make sure you tell your daughter FIRST that there are bad people on the internet and if you talk to someone who looks fishy, stop talking to him immediatley! i guess it's ok to just, like, once a month tell your daughter that you want to check her myspace and ALL her messages, and let her KNOW what she is in for, because you can't permanently delete ALL her messages.
chad5161 4 years ago
How about should I not knock on my kids door when I smell pot coming from it? Should I not search the room when he leaves? Should I just not care about my child and let them do whatever? Should i not be concerned enough about my daughter's internet habits to know that she, at 14, is talking to a 43 year old registered sex offender?
Quindal 4 years ago
Privacy is not a priviledge.
Privacy is not a given either. Trust and respect is earned, it is earned through actions. You say that give my kids space so let's put that in worst case scenario terms.
Should I leave the room when my child is playing, knowing there is a bottle of bleach in the room?
Quindal 4 years ago
we kids SHOULDN'T be spied! parents always say "PRIVACY IS A PRIVILEGE"! that is BS! you don't "earn" privacy! EVERYONE has their own natural sense of privacy, and your kids REALLY feel violated when you are watching their every move! give them some SPACE, woman!
chad5161 4 years ago
frickin liberals "oh no, don't spy, what message does that send? you want your kids to trust you and feel you trust them"
Kids are kids.. You can definately trust your kids to lie and hide things from you. And i want my kids to trust me to do everything in my power to watch over them. Even spying. I want them to KNOW that i am always watching, especially when they don't know i'm there. America with their liberals have gotten too far out of touch with parenting.
Quindal 4 years ago