this man is absolutely crazy......HELP A BROTHA OUT...cuz if you come up in here with pants on,,,, or have a dress on that shows your legs....the brothers DICK will get hard......silly
Well said angelah the problem id though too men in the church leaders ain't fit to handle this problem take advantage of these women especially in the black church which is a joke these days
From my own observations, I notice that women (from the US) who don scantily clad attire in an effort to get attention from men usually grew up without a father/father figure. Although I think that it is very important to encourage women to respect themselves, I also think that it would be most beneficial to give attention to the source of the problem (no father) and not the symptom(s) (looking for Daddy in the wrong ways)...
@cboneofenglewood I've thought a lot about what you said and as I said before, your comment is valid. I just believe to say that clothes are the reason for rape is too easy an explanation for such a strong act of aggression/violence. Yes, women should dress modestly, because clothes do have an effect/play a role. But I submit rape is much more complicated than what the pastor suggests in this clip. I know we won't solve this thing on youtube so I'll leave it there. Great discussion.
@cboneofenglewood i see your point, but if women are raped because of the clothes they wear, then it would be happening much more frequently. many women have not been raped and wear the same clothes we know prostitutes to wear. i don't know the circumstances of your work, but i submit that power and control still come into play whether a woman is a prostitute or not. The story of Tamar in the Bible (beginning in 2 Samuel 13) illustrates my point. That said, dressing modestly is Biblical.
I work directly with many victims of rape, and I too have heard the societal theory that rape is related to control and power. In my work, that couldn't be further from the truth. Most of the victims I have assisted were either working prostitutes or teenage girls experimenting with prostitution. Maybe the control theory is valid in some cases, but not the majority of the ones I have seen.
this man is absolutely crazy......HELP A BROTHA OUT...cuz if you come up in here with pants on,,,, or have a dress on that shows your legs....the brothers DICK will get hard......silly
Lynnsization 1 week ago
Well said angelah the problem id though too men in the church leaders ain't fit to handle this problem take advantage of these women especially in the black church which is a joke these days
BiGMANJOE32 4 months ago
From my own observations, I notice that women (from the US) who don scantily clad attire in an effort to get attention from men usually grew up without a father/father figure. Although I think that it is very important to encourage women to respect themselves, I also think that it would be most beneficial to give attention to the source of the problem (no father) and not the symptom(s) (looking for Daddy in the wrong ways)...
angelahill01 4 months ago
DON Imus. LOL
BuzzardEggs 8 months ago 2
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ImDemanding 9 months ago
@cboneofenglewood I've thought a lot about what you said and as I said before, your comment is valid. I just believe to say that clothes are the reason for rape is too easy an explanation for such a strong act of aggression/violence. Yes, women should dress modestly, because clothes do have an effect/play a role. But I submit rape is much more complicated than what the pastor suggests in this clip. I know we won't solve this thing on youtube so I'll leave it there. Great discussion.
bfree2live 10 months ago
@cboneofenglewood Thanks for the discussion. God bless you too!
bfree2live 10 months ago
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I'm in law enforcement. Appreciate your response. I have worked quite a few rape cases. Always good to learn from the thoughts of others.
God bless you.
cboneofenglewood 10 months ago
@cboneofenglewood i see your point, but if women are raped because of the clothes they wear, then it would be happening much more frequently. many women have not been raped and wear the same clothes we know prostitutes to wear. i don't know the circumstances of your work, but i submit that power and control still come into play whether a woman is a prostitute or not. The story of Tamar in the Bible (beginning in 2 Samuel 13) illustrates my point. That said, dressing modestly is Biblical.
bfree2live 10 months ago
@bfree2live
I work directly with many victims of rape, and I too have heard the societal theory that rape is related to control and power. In my work, that couldn't be further from the truth. Most of the victims I have assisted were either working prostitutes or teenage girls experimenting with prostitution. Maybe the control theory is valid in some cases, but not the majority of the ones I have seen.
cboneofenglewood 10 months ago